what i want in a bf

beardo

beardo

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TheChosen said:
You're best friends with v-nasty?
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I don't know if she's my "best friend"? But were friends, she's my best friend I want to sleep with and get down on like Ellen Degeneres but I don't think she's into me in that way, I think she's super sexy, I might be closer with Andy or Simon but I don't feel that same attraction to them but maybe those are my "best friends" in the classical sense. Me & V are tight though, just not as close as I would like..
 
TheChosen

TheChosen

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beardo said:
I don't know if she's my "best friend"? But were friends, she's my best friend I want to sleep with and get down on like Ellen Degeneres but I don't think she's into me in that way, I think she's super sexy, I might be closer with Andy or Simon but I don't feel that same attraction to them but maybe those are my "best friends" in the classical sense. Me & V are tight though, just not as close as I would like..
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That's pretty cool, tbh. Appreciate the friendship you have and don't try to make it something the both of you do not want. And if you aren't gay I wouldn't expect you to find the same attraction with your male best friends. You'll find someone, and maybe that someone is Jadie.
 
Pipe Dream

Pipe Dream

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jadie said:
Well I dated one guy for six years then another guy shortly after for a couple months.
My first ex and I just grew apart. We changed a lot from the time we began dating. I often felt like he was holding me back somehow. I broke it off with him. He was a nice guy but it just wasn't working out. We're still on good terms and I'll always have a special place in my heart for him, he was my first love.

The guy I dated after him was a complete dick. Going into it, he screwed me over initially so I don't know why I kept giving him chances. We hung out a lot and he had a long distance girlfriend. He would always cuddle with me, and I knew it was wrong but I didn't stop it. Eventually he told me he was leaving her for me. We had sex, they broke up. Then he told me that he didn't like as more than a friend. We stopped talking for 2 full months, and then he apologized and we started hanging out again. He asked me to be his gf. When we started dating, he treated me like shit. On and off he would ignore me or make me feel like crap for no reason. He would only have sex with me when he was in the mood, which was rare, and he never made sure that I got off. We broke up and got back together, then he told me that he decided he was going to move back to Florida. We promised that we would keep each other in our lives and I would visit him and vice versa. 3 weeks after moving down there, he had a new gf. They are now engaged. Shortly after they started dating he decided to send me a facebook message telling me exactly how much I never meant to him...
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Typical female logic:

Guy's an asshole: Let him fuck whenever it's convenient for him.

Guy's a good guy: Friendzone him and tell him that you want a guy that's just like him, but not him.
 
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xKuroiTaimax

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Pipe Dream said:
Typical female logic:

Guy's an asshole: Let him fuck whenever it's convenient for him.

Guy's a good guy: Friendzone him and tell him that you want a guy that's just like him, but not him.
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The friendzone is a shitty place for all of us lol. But yeah I think it happens because when either gender fied someone genuine, thsy're afraid of losing them. This guy she likes has friendzoned her as I'm sure she's friendzoned other guys. Because everyone is so fucked up it's actually safer to date a pyscho dick asshole as anyone who is girlfriend/boyfriend material is far too precious to risk being an actual girlfriend/boyfriend!!! So backwards...
 
srh88

srh88

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xKuroiTaimax said:
The friendzone is a shitty place for all of us lol. But yeah I think it happens because when either gender fied someone genuine, thsy're afraid of losing them. This guy she likes has friendzoned her as I'm sure she's friendzoned other guys. Because everyone is so fucked up it's actually safer to date a pyscho dick asshole as anyone who is girlfriend/boyfriend material is far too precious to risk being an actual girlfriend/boyfriend!!! So backwards...
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just dont put yourself in the positioned to be just the friend if thats not what you want..
 
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