I have somewhat of a discouraging update.
Ok, so based on the advice I've gotten and the fact that it's now driving me crazy with doubt, I decided to just ask. Didn't turn out as easy as I had hoped. Obviously this isn't something that you ask through text or on the phone so I felt that face to face was the best way to deal with it. I spoke to her on the phone and told her that I was gonna be cooking her dinner and that I really wanted to talk to her about something that has been bothering me (I probably should have stopped at "I'm cooking you dinner"). She asked what it was and I just said that we'd discuss it at dinner. She kept prying so I just said that something her friends told me about her had me kinda confused. We said good-bye and she agreed to come over for dinner.
Well...she never showed.
The thing is that she didn't even answer my calls or texts and hasn't replied to voice mails. I've been thinking the worst things like maybe she was in a car accident. I don't know her family so there's no one I can call. I've tried going by her place but there's no sign of her there either. Tried talking to a neighbor but she's only lived there a couple weeks so no one really knows her. My guess is that maybe a family emergency came up and she had to leave town and maybe she left her phone at home. I don't think she would just leave me and not say anything to me. Maybe I did fall for her cause the not knowing if she's safe is killing me. I've even called all the hospitals within a 200 mile radius.
What should I do??
Move on.
