An observation about womens thoughts on breasts

[Padawanbater2]

From my experience, women seem to be much more critical of their breasts than men are. I've even hooked up with more than one girl who felt self conscious about showing them, even in the middle of sex.

Is this an unintended consequence of what is projected throughout our culture as the perfect pair of tits and a good amount of women who feel they don't meet up to the standards?

 

[sunni]

because men have unrealistic views on what they should look like generally men want women with giant perky breasts well giant and perky there aint no such thing unless its fake.

 

[SSHZ]

I've NEVER met a pair I didn't like (or enjoy)!

 

[PurpleBuz]

yes most women want to be attractive. goes all the way back to the need to procreate and raise a family for survival of the species, since they need to attract a mate they are critical of anything thats not the most attractive. We humans are so "smart" we make it even more important and convoluted.

 

[kushhound187]

Alot of guys make chicks nervous, and they arent always sensitive about the self consious nature of women. they make rude comments, wierd faces, and laugh, ive heard lots of shit fron girls i dated. and sunnis point is bang on as well. there are lots of reasons. all i can say is, i looooove women just how they are. fake tits dont do shit for me. God did a great job when he created ladies. perfect as far as i know. I wouldnt have women be any other way

 

[Dr. Greenhorn]

From my experience, women seem to be much more critical of their breasts than men are. I've even hooked up with more than one girl who felt self conscious about showing them, even in the middle of sex.

Is this an unintended consequence of what is projected throughout our culture as the perfect pair of tits and a good amount of women who feel they don't meet up to the standards?

I've been with women who were insecure about them selves. I dunno what the deal is with that.


personally, I'm more of an ass and legs guy myself. don't care to much about size of tits

 

[silasraven]

because men have unrealistic views on what they should look like generally men want women with giant perky breasts well giant and perky there aint no such thing unless its fake.

vanity
​its about the feel.not size

 

[DonPepe]

their are so many weird fallacies surrounding our social stigma of breasts that it is impossible to prescribe natural reasoning to the effects applied by our strange evaluation of them.

i have always found it odd that men are the ones who fixate and obsess over breasts, but were also the ones who decided they should be covered at all times. and equally odd that women have not made more stringent demands for equality in this respect. the only conclusion i can come up with is that women enjoy, perhaps even subconsciously, the amount of power they afford them over weaker men, just a thought i got no reasoning to back it up.

 

[hereshegrows]

If you look at it from a primordial stand point, maybe subconsciously we believe that larger breasts will provide more milk and produce stronger, larger offspring...The large chested females I've had as friends often got a lot of attention due solely to the size of their breast. If there is a flat chested female in the vicinity being passed up, she's gonna want to have a fair chance of attracting a mate too...so she goes out a buys a pair. Pretty sad really when you think about the psychology behind it. We are all so animalistic when you get right down to it.

 

[PurpleBuz]

their are so many weird fallacies surrounding our social stigma of breasts that it is impossible to prescribe natural reasoning to the effects applied by our strange evaluation of them.

i have always found it odd that men are the ones who fixate and obsess over breasts, but were also the ones who decided they should be covered at all times. and equally odd that women have not made more stringent demands for equality in this respect. the only conclusion i can come up with is that women enjoy, perhaps even subconsciously, the amount of power they afford them over weaker men, just a thought i got no reasoning to back it up.

we don't all think they should be covered at all times, speak for yourself.
the only downside to uncovered breasts is that its a distraction.

 

[DonPepe]

If you look at it from a primordial stand point, maybe subconsciously we believe that larger breasts will provide more milk and produce stronger, larger offspring...The large chested females I've had as friends often got a lot of attention due solely to the size of their breast. If there is a flat chested female in the vicinity being passed up, she's gonna want to have a fair chance of attracting a mate too...so she goes out a buys a pair. Pretty sad really when you think about the psychology behind it. We are all so animalistic when you get right down to it.

the same applies in reverse also, men however lack that single feature like breasts to be observed and judged in casual passing. Ever find it odd how most women are attracted to the men who move thru women most quickly?

 

[DonPepe]

we don't all think they should be covered at all times, speak for yourself.
the only downside to uncovered breasts is that its a distraction.

i was speaking of the time in the past when it was decided that it should be illegal for women to expose there breasts in public, yet has no such implications for men.

yes it would be distracting for a few weeks/months but we would quickly get used to it as the norm and nothing to cause any more unrest that a girl in short skirt.

 

[Dr. Greenhorn]

Ever find it odd how most women are attracted to the men who move thru women most quickly?

nope, don't find it odd at all

 

[kinetic]

nope, don't find it odd at all

I used to get reference sex too. Don't tell my wife though, she doesn't like to hear about my past.

 

[DonPepe]

nope, don't find it odd at all

why? i would think solid respectful family men would be more attractive logically speaking from a breading standpoint.

it seem at odds with ones own prosperity to bread with a man you know is going to move on soon and has no desire to stay with you or your future child.

then women ask why all men are assholes.... well there not, just the ones you are attracted too.

 

[Dr. Greenhorn]

why? i would think solid respectful family men would be more attractive logically speaking from a breading standpoint.

cause women get bored dude, they want to live it up once in a while. grass is always greener on the other side. doesn't mean they want to be with dude forever, they just want a sample

 

[DonPepe]

cause women get bored dude, they want to live it up once in a while. grass is always greener on the other side. doesn't mean they want to be with dude forever, they just want a sample

well that's true for sure, men are the same in that respect. but i was talking about relationships and marriage rather than flings.

 

[Dr. Greenhorn]

well that's true for sure, men are the same in that respect. but i was talking about relationships and marriage rather than flings.

well, ya. of course if it's a relationship forever i.e. marriage, different story

 

[DonPepe]

well, ya. of course if it's a relationship forever, different story

but most of the time it's not for women..... they still choose the asshole, who they met while he was dating their friend, but for some reason they can't understand why he is a bad choice, and are completely confused when he runs off with one of their friends.

i am sure the same can be said about men, just with different qualities. I just don't notice it, as I am a man and would presumably suffer from the issue myself.

 

[Dr. Greenhorn]

but most of the time it's not for women..... they still choose the asshole, who they met while he was dating their friend, but for some reason they can't understand why he is a bad choice.

ya. which goes back to they want to live it up sometimes. live on the edge.... good girls like bad guys. true story


good guys are sooooo bleh. boring and predictable.