My father suffered from a long illness. That was so hard on him. Our family too. If I could choose I'd choose instant. Tell those in your life you love them, so if you do die suddenly they know how you feel.
What would you rather have though? Instant death or a chance to say goodbye to...
sorry, I felt weird being in your house when Nobody was home. BW was floating around too but he was hiding... maybe he was in your kitchen making some of that left over tetrazzini
silver lining: Me and bailey Jay had a nice chat