Ok so ignore the numbers like 1000w because they are nonsense numbers.
The 1000w is 180w-200w
The 252w is 140w
The 54w lights I cant tell but probably 15-25w (if you can find out more info on the page do so)
But as a guess lets assume the lowest number on those multi bulbs.
6x 15w =90w
+ 180w
+ 140w
410w total.
With lights like those you want more watts per square foot than with more efficient LEDs
I would be aiming for at least 50w per square foot
So say 8 square foot you might want to try 9 since that's a 3x3 tent.
This is a best guess based on what little I know about low efficiency Blurple LEDs
So its a very rough estimate, best thing is to try 9 square foot and be prepared to compact your grow space if buds turn out airy, or start compact and once you know they are producing dense buds expand slightly.
Like I say rough guess since we really don't know the true wattage of the smaller bulbs you have 6 of. Its very unlikle they are the wattage listed, LEDs are run low power so they last longer.
For your other two questions
No idea on height from canopy but its related to light intensity, you will have to start off maybe 24" and work down once you know they are not causing any light burn.
You might hit 1gpw if your good at managing your canopy but I couldn't say either way. If you get 400g dry your doing very well. I would opt to imagine less so your not disappointed.