clearly a male, and, sorry about your luck bro because I used my loupe on your picture and your plant is infested with spider mites.
Just kidding. try to give different angles, and post some more pics when it matures a little more. You seem to be looking in the right place. Those little barbs by the crotches will grow an adjacent calyx with hairs if it is a female.
Be careful bro, I heard justin trudeau is creeping around private home grows, shaking down the cultivator for tax dollars to feed his addiction to money that is rightfully yours. Probably cause his legal produces are greedy capitalists who use illegal pesticides and crap genetics.