Well Ive been in a relationship for the last 8 years... I would be ungodly pissed and stay pissed till she let me have them back.
BUT when a woman that you want to be with throws up that ultimatum you dont really have another choice.
You can grow another plant, Not another great woman.
ALSO I do agree that she shouldint try to change you that she should love you no matter what you do....(Thats how I convinced the wifey)
Hopefully we'll see you around NMH! : )
Laters
DaCDaC