budbro, interesting that you mention silica because I have supplemented with it. It has probably been at least a week since I have added any, I added it heavier about 2 weeks ago.
FJG, I thought about bugs but all I have seen is mites (not for 2 weeks thankfully), fungus gnats (under control), and one lone mature root aphid. I haven't had signs of leaf eating insects but it sure does look like it is being eaten!
Thanks for the suggestion on snapping a couple pics during lights out. I tried it but it seems my cell phone takes better pics, too much damn technology on my new fancy camera. I think pic one in my OP is the best pic. I might try to get some better ones in a bit or tonight. Here is what I just took.