Bad News. . .

This girl is 9 days in. Unfortunetly i think the other 1 was male, so i put him outside. but she doesnt look very good, my MY ph is hi 6and i water 500ml everyothr day or so...any suggestions?

Looks like you are watering it too much. Try heavily watering once, and then waiting until the soil is bone dry when you stick your finger in it. If you do that you should end up watering it no more than once a week.

hmm..ok..i have a water meter amatuerish thing. it has a 1-4 scale..it says water when its on 1. i water when i stick my finger in the soil and the top 1 inch is dry. so your saying the entire pot should be dry?