It's nice you got more light now, but you should try and keep it as close as possible to the plant without burning it. Kinda hard to tell from the pick, but it seems a little far away.
it takes a couple of weeks to show sex, you should be able to tell by the development of pre flowers, but pistils and sacs sometimes take up to a month, pending how much root growth is needed to fill the container, when roots are done filling out, growth spurt and sex follow.
its drooping because its either over or under watered or your suffocating the roots.
its actually dwc so its in water all the time i turned the bubbler off at night but now im leaving it on. the light is about 1 an a half foot away. can u help me out with what sort of light it is, it metal work in side the glass bulb an kind of a cloudy tube in the middle takes a few secs to warm up