You are right! I realize to have peace with this - it has to be her way! I relent and so has she. She is open to treatment.I can't do that. I can only ask if it is wanted, and try to offer reason. Some people just don't want to try, and I would feel like I'm disrespecting their wishes if I snuck it to them. Besides, when there are other drugs and conditions involved, one should tread with caution.
Nevertheless, I'll try again.