way to read the whole thread. spammer.
about your soil.. are you planning to transplant your stunted girls out of the current soil?
if you start with new seeds, i would advise you to start with jiffy/peat pellets or a rapid rooter of some kind. give the girls a chance to get their 2nd and possibly 3rd leaf set started then go into whatever soil you are using presently.
hmm... soil recommends... anything at lowes or home depot is going to be nute-ified new word.. you dig it? i hear some people use the MG potting soil (with success) just be sure you pH the water properly first.
it would REALLY be worth your time to drive out to the grow shop and pick up good soil. if you're truly serious about growing your own buds, start with good soil designed for growing healthy plants, not the crap that the big box retailers offer.
if you're really worried about nutrients in the soil, start with Fox Farms Light Warrior, this stuff is pretty damn bland. Makes its great for seed starting. Next level up is going to be Happy Frog, its VAGUELY more potent than the Light Warrior, yet most growers (i've read) make it through veg without adding nutrients. Only dosing in nutrients during bloom. The strongest of their soils is going to be Ocean Forest. This stuff is pretty damn well fortified, yet most growers have no trouble with a seedling (started in a rooter of some kind), because it pH balanced for growing "anything", guaranteed. (as are ALL of their soils, pH balanced)
Long story short, just cave, drive to the grow shop and grab a bag of Happy Frog, and be off to a good start. For more info just google "fox farms soil" and check out their website.
Hope this is the help you were looking for. Good luck to you my friend.
Shack