Now my goal is trying to get the canopy even but im in 1k of flowering. Should i gently just LST to the point its a even layer or im guessing no but super vrop the bitch at those 2 "main colas" growing a lil faster than the rest or just simply leave her be.
I top and lst and get results similar to yours, check out my current grow. I just keep pulling them out even up till 3rd week of flower til I get them as far as they are going to go. For example that 4th pic in the 1st set I'd now move the tie closer to the tip maybe 3-4" and pull it down more. And just keep doing that all around the plant.
It looks like that would be a pain in the ass with a ceramic pot, tape and twine. Much easier is a plastic pot with holes drilled around the rim, tying down with garden tie wire. It's super easy to put on and later adjust as needed. I probably go over each pot 6-7 times over a few weeks tying them down and adjusting. I just do it every watering.
Be aware that as you get into flower the stems get less supple and are easier to break if you're not careful.After they have been tied down a couple weeks and the stretch stops you can take them off, the stems have pretty much grown permanently into that shape.