Winter Woman
Well-Known Member
My best friend called and told me about another man other than her husband!
When he married her he told her he could take or leave sex (could this be a side effect from 7 years in prison?). And on their 1st year anniversary he told her didn't want to have sex anymore and she could have a man on the side. It's now years later and he still says that she can have a guy on the side and she has finally gone out and found one.
Her spouse is a loser, a real loser, ex-heroin addict that od one time when he got a chance to do some without her knowing it, so heavy drug abuse isn't over. She even has to hide her medicines because he'll take them. She always wanted a bad boy and man, did she get one.
I'm feeling very conflicted. He is my husband's brother!
My hubby has told her before to leave his bro and get a real man, he really is disgusted with his brother. I can't keep this from him. I might burn an egg and not tell but this is something else altogether.
My moral compass says this is very wrong. But, I can't imagine 12 years with a man that doesn't want sex. Also, he hasn't worked in about 7 years. This could get real nasty.
When he married her he told her he could take or leave sex (could this be a side effect from 7 years in prison?). And on their 1st year anniversary he told her didn't want to have sex anymore and she could have a man on the side. It's now years later and he still says that she can have a guy on the side and she has finally gone out and found one.
Her spouse is a loser, a real loser, ex-heroin addict that od one time when he got a chance to do some without her knowing it, so heavy drug abuse isn't over. She even has to hide her medicines because he'll take them. She always wanted a bad boy and man, did she get one.
I'm feeling very conflicted. He is my husband's brother!
My hubby has told her before to leave his bro and get a real man, he really is disgusted with his brother. I can't keep this from him. I might burn an egg and not tell but this is something else altogether.
My moral compass says this is very wrong. But, I can't imagine 12 years with a man that doesn't want sex. Also, he hasn't worked in about 7 years. This could get real nasty.