I do agree with her.
I had an herbalaire, Volcano classic and now have a Volcano digital, vapor genie, and I can vaporize with indirect heat from my soldering iron with my bong and while it gets me high; it is nothing like a good bong rip or joint. I was BIG into vaping for a while - it is all that I would use. Now it has its place and it is surely not my main contender. To get me as high as a milky bong rip I would have to use a lot more in the Volcano and it STILL wouldn't hit you in the head like Mike Tyson in his prime like my RooR does.
I like a bag when I have to go out with others or when I have shit to do and I like to smoke when I am going to chill and watch a movie.
After years of bonging and vaporizing I am starting to think a pack of zig-zags and lefties are the best method to smoke. Tastes great, gets you high, relaxing, nothing to clean / spill / break, and that last resiny hit does magic. I consider a Volcano a step down in pleasure from a nice J - Mine has been collecting dust for some time now.