How has it been every other year? Do you feel paranoid? Is your neighbour always looking over your fence or any other evidence that he has intention of harming your family... I find this post to be very entertaining and how something this minor leads people to think the that family is in danger but being over protective over family isn't a bad thing either. IMO I think you do care about your family but in all honesty your first concern were your plants. Chill my man, observe and think twice before you pull that trigger.