OP I am telling you straight up, as you already know, asking for names looks weird. We already came up with a name that we felt comfortable using on this site. It is not understandable that you need to know our name to make some connection. You're accepting fake names like Steve, so why not just use our tag name? We can all see that you are attempting to share knowledge, and show your intellectual capabilities, and the depths of your vast bank of knowledge and experience. A name has absolutely nothing to do with the quality of the online relationships you can make on RIU. You asking for real names takes away from the quality of life at RIU for others. To not feel like somebody is actively seeking out exactly who we are. Even if you are a great guy with a legal grow, it is not wise to share your name, where you live, and your picture. The way you present yourself on here is very distinct, you don't want a stranger to fins you. With that said, please respect our wishes to remain anonymous and do not ask for our information. If we wish for others to know, we will freely share without being asked. Find a nice coffee shop for more intimate relationships. You're in Cali and legal, gain these friendships at a garden center. RIU-Sharing information freely without want for gain, other than another gaining knowledge! Peace brother! -JNuggs