Fat Chicks <3

ALX420

ALX420

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Stoney McFried said:
He's a friend of mine on myspace...no shit.But he's never online.And it's better some things remain fantasy.He may have a small penis...or be bad in the sack in reality.:mrgreen:
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people that are bad in the sack cant get famous. it requires too much sleeping around. thats why i still got a shot!
 
littlebat

littlebat

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BreatheSmoke said:
lol I think they are comfortable with the saying.. 'Big is beautiful.' They're trying to make the photo look all artsy when really it is just plain vile.
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I find this completely offensive and ridiculous, as is most of this thread. Those women are gorgeous if for no other reason than that they're unafraid to subvert the dominant beauty paradigm. Beauty comes in ALL sizes!!!

As someone working on a documentary about eating disorders, and someone who survived one myself, hearing ANYONE'S body called "vile" is the kind of thing that makes me want to work harder and harder to bring awareness into the world.

When I was sick, I looked "great" according to many people. But I was absolutely, completely, totally, 100% miserable. Now, 15 years later, I weigh 30 lbs more than I did then, and I've never felt more comfortable with my body. My body can dance and do backbends and I'm in my 30s! As an added bonus, I have an actual *self* now, and I can enjoy food with friends, and I can laugh.

"Fat" is so often used in the pejorative. Why? It's about the person inside. A male friend was telling me the other day about the girl who had the best body of everyone he ever dated. She was a figure skater and her body was technically "perfect." Yet she spent all her time obsessing on her looks, and putting herself down, and eventually he started to see her the way she saw herself and lost his attraction to her. His next gf was a few pounds "overweight," and when he would invite her to go to the gym with him, she'd say, "Why? I'm hot already." Now, as someone who loves to exercise, and knows how good it is for one's mental and physical health, I can see some problems with that statement, but the fact of the matter is that he was way hotter for her than he'd ever been for the skater because she was confident and she loved her body and she loved herself. He said, "She was like Viagra. I could be totally not in the mood and she could get me there."

So, was she "vile?" I'm gonna say no. And now I'm going to leave this thread because I find it deeply upsetting.
 
BreatheSmoke

BreatheSmoke

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littlebat said:
I find this completely offensive and ridiculous, as is most of this thread. Those women are gorgeous if for no other reason than that they're unafraid to subvert the dominant beauty paradigm. Beauty comes in ALL sizes!!!

As someone working on a documentary about eating disorders, and someone who survived one myself, hearing ANYONE'S body called "vile" is the kind of thing that makes me want to work harder and harder to bring awareness into the world.

When I was sick, I looked "great" according to many people. But I was absolutely, completely, totally, 100% miserable. Now, 15 years later, I weigh 30 lbs more than I did then, and I've never felt more comfortable with my body. My body can dance and do backbends and I'm in my 30s! As an added bonus, I have an actual *self* now, and I can enjoy food with friends, and I can laugh.

"Fat" is so often used in the pejorative. Why? It's about the person inside. A male friend was telling me the other day about the girl who had the best body of everyone he ever dated. She was a figure skater and her body was technically "perfect." Yet she spent all her time obsessing on her looks, and putting herself down, and eventually he started to see her the way she saw herself and lost his attraction to her. His next gf was a few pounds "overweight," and when he would invite her to go to the gym with him, she'd say, "Why? I'm hot already." Now, as someone who loves to exercise, and knows how good it is for one's mental and physical health, I can see some problems with that statement, but the fact of the matter is that he was way hotter for her than he'd ever been for the skater because she was confident and she loved her body and she loved herself. He said, "She was like Viagra. I could be totally not in the mood and she could get me there."

So, was she "vile?" I'm gonna say no. And now I'm going to leave this thread because I find it deeply upsetting.
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Sorry you're offended, but in my personal opinion, I think that someone who is that obese as shown in the photo is certainly vile.. You say it's about the person inside.. Well, to me, if you allow yourself to get that morbidly obese, that says a lot about the person. Obesity is unhealthy... Number one cause of diabetes.. Parents who let their children eat Mcdonald's everyday cut their child's life short. I'm talking about OBESE.. Not 30 lbs overweight.
 
Stoney McFried

Stoney McFried

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What a great post.I'm going to have to rep you.
littlebat said:
I find this completely offensive and ridiculous, as is most of this thread. Those women are gorgeous if for no other reason than that they're unafraid to subvert the dominant beauty paradigm. Beauty comes in ALL sizes!!!

As someone working on a documentary about eating disorders, and someone who survived one myself, hearing ANYONE'S body called "vile" is the kind of thing that makes me want to work harder and harder to bring awareness into the world.

When I was sick, I looked "great" according to many people. But I was absolutely, completely, totally, 100% miserable. Now, 15 years later, I weigh 30 lbs more than I did then, and I've never felt more comfortable with my body. My body can dance and do backbends and I'm in my 30s! As an added bonus, I have an actual *self* now, and I can enjoy food with friends, and I can laugh.

"Fat" is so often used in the pejorative. Why? It's about the person inside. A male friend was telling me the other day about the girl who had the best body of everyone he ever dated. She was a figure skater and her body was technically "perfect." Yet she spent all her time obsessing on her looks, and putting herself down, and eventually he started to see her the way she saw herself and lost his attraction to her. His next gf was a few pounds "overweight," and when he would invite her to go to the gym with him, she'd say, "Why? I'm hot already." Now, as someone who loves to exercise, and knows how good it is for one's mental and physical health, I can see some problems with that statement, but the fact of the matter is that he was way hotter for her than he'd ever been for the skater because she was confident and she loved her body and she loved herself. He said, "She was like Viagra. I could be totally not in the mood and she could get me there."

So, was she "vile?" I'm gonna say no. And now I'm going to leave this thread because I find it deeply upsetting.
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BreatheSmoke

BreatheSmoke

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Either yall refuse to understand my point or you just feel like making me look bad.

I'm not awful on the inside, excuse me for thinking it's disgusting to be 200 lbs overweight.
 
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