female?

Hey People I could use some advise. My baby has been flowering for 15 days now and it has white hairs all over it, but before the hairs it looked like a male because it had 1 or 2 ball shaped calyxes at each node, but they seem to be growing longer instead of rounder and they dont look (club shaped) which I was told to look for. It seems a couple have opened but no hairs from them yet. I thought males were in clusters like grapes. Are these female calyxes without hairs yet? Like I said the rest of the plant has white hairs all over it .

sometimes they do that. looks fine.

Thanks fdd,
Im starting to stress. I almost pulled her but then I read sometimes females start out like that but its just the female flower before the hairs come out. The only reason I stopped is because there are only one or two not clusters or club shaped. Ive also started to use kool bloom. Keepin fingers crossed! Its stinky as hell already too!