Even light speed would be painfully slow when you consider the vast distances of just interstellar travel. If life is plentiful throughout the cosmos, I'm sure some, if not most, civilizations destroy themselves before they can populate their local systems. But even the ones that don't - there would be diminishing returns on how far (i.e. how long) they travel outward to explore/mine/conquer/whatever. Even if their lifespans were millennia, who would want to spend most or all of that traveling at light speed across the cosmos? The odds are we would never meet another such civilization, even if they are plentiful. Intelligent life would have to bend/fold spacetime, or discover naturally occurring wormholes, in order to really travel vast distances. Or something like that, I'm pretty stoned...