any other suggestions or should i just flip a coin?
Hi,
First thing is you can't rush nature
You have some very healthy plants there but if you want to be fairly sure of getting at least 1 female you are going to need to select 3 of them!
Why not go with 3 smaller pots, put them into 12/12 and grow them out? Within 14 days you will see if you have any males as they show first, discard it/them and flower out the female/s. You will still be able to take cuttings from a flowering plant and from point you have your future stock for the follow up grow.
If it were me starting over again I'd flower all of those in small pots and select the2 best females. You do need to plan ahead in this game, and be genetically selective for the future. Down the line you will end up with 1 very stable plant as you wish, and simply clone from clone etc. But you need to start from the begining and look forward.
You got a nice touch, they look healthy
Btw, yes you can reveg a mid flowering plant no problem, as to so called 'hermies' think less in terms of stress and more in terms of stable genetics, most hermies are genetic caused by overbreeding and its very common in feminised seeds, but go with solid genetics and you will rarely if ever, see one.
Hope this helps in some way, oh and dont worry about mutant leaf growth either, its common.