Well as I said, I am going to update this thread as my grow progresses.
I have been thinking stressing out about what's going on with my plants....see above posts,lol...
But Im pretty sure i figured out what the problem might have been. I came to the realization as I was doing my daily chores while not sky high, that I probably shouldn't be adding pH Down concentrate as my pump is running to feed the plants...my feed pump runs the entire time my lights are on...I figure that the pump was taking the concentrated pH solution and pumping it out to the plants before it could dilute completely causing huge swings for them. So I have decided to just let my pH fluctuate a bit more...I was being a bit anal and trying to keep it 5.6-5.8, adjusting multiple times a day. I will instead adjust once a day before my pump kicks on, if necessary.
I topped them all a few days ago, they already have a new set of leaves on the two new tops. The deficiency symptoms seem to have all stopped progressing, and the new growth looks fairly healthy. I'm at my halfway point through veg and am pretty happy with how things are going.
A few pics from my phone...who knows which way they'll turn themselves....