hey man just read your entire thread. I've had the same experience, first 2 grows were male (i could only do 1 plant at a time) then when i finally got a female shit got sketchy and had to chop it
I may start growing again but my car recently passed away lol, so now i'm skateboarding to work and everywhere i go. (yay for a college graduate who has a good paying job lol)
if you don't mind me asking, where did you get your dirt, nutes...etc? and what brand?