Flaky Friends

how do you deal with them? the guy orders 45 clones. i root them. 2 weeks before he's ready to go he goes with some other strain. because his "mentor" told him to (happened to be his mentors clones). yestarday he calls me and says he has 20 extra do i want them? i say sure i will donate them to the club. he tells me to pick them up from him this morning. i go meet him. "Oh, i forgot them." then 4 different times he sets up getting all this outdoor out of here. 4 times "oh, i forgot to mention anything. he came to me wanting it. he borrows all my learning aids. refuses to buy his own yet he's pulling in 3lbs every 3 months. me i'm a connisuer. he clowns my weed, then grows crap. i work with the guy in a buisness of 4 people. we've hung out now so i can't be rude. what do you do when you are FORCED by circumstance to be someones friend when they are only in it for themselves.

side note: i literally drop everything for this guy. that's just how i am. there is nothing SO important in MY life that i can't stop and help someone.

well, my flaky dude was my contact. I was tolerant for a while. Then during one purchase he agreed to get a large amount if we front the cash.

Then suddenly he stops answering the phone. Finally he answers and is all looped at his place. Demands that I pick it up from him, which wasn't the plan. I let it ride as chewing out someone when they're high doesn't get you anywhere. But the dude was no better when I did chew him out later on.

Now the fucker is slightly more reliable but he's upped his rates 100%. So I'm in the middle of replacing him in two ways. Growing my own...and working other contacts.

I can party with the dude. But I don't know that I'll trust him ever again.

I mean, he knew I was out, bought stuff with my cash and then headed to his home and smoked my stuff after agreeing to meet me at my joint? That's flat out fucked up. Hope your buddy is better.

they just don't get it. the guy whines about everything in his life (mortgage, kids, bills...) all the things HE's taken on. then tries to tell me i need to do the same. like i said i have to work with him. sometimes sharing a room out of town 24/7. if i speak up then I'M the asshole. uuuurrrrggghhh

yeah, I have to CONSTANTLY refrain myself from getting on that bandwagon. Trust me...you and I see eye to eye about that.

But I work with so many weak pansies that just think it's their life obligation to be a wageslave to a shitty house, a cheating wive, and boring kids. Actually I think the obligations to kids thing is real...but still. I get tired of being lectured about it by guys who don't understand why I'm still single. And then they get personal and start trying to ask if I'm gay. If only they knew that I'd be pumping their wives if I only had the chance.

oh the way she looks at me.

faded, ur flaky freind is a great model of a psychic vampire. Do unto others as they do unto you, my friend. being patient with somebody can be admirable, but dont let it go too far. its your responsibility to talk to this guy n let him know whats up. and keep in mind, as u may be trying to act noble, u disrespect him every time u presume that he is too ignorant to be understanding.

ive spent a majority of my life helpin ppl out all the time. sometimes its appreciated. sometimes i get respect and gain trust. gain solid relationships, etc. but some people have a world perspective that makes it very hard for them to view themselves in an unbiased way, and many times these self-centered people have a worse time considering others.

give the situation a solid chance. lighten up on how u judge him and explain to him how u think of the situation. if he acts like an asshole, part ways. or at least tell him ur not gonna help him out as much.

yeah, we go thru that every 6 months. it gets to me. feelings get hurt. we talk about it. he mellows out for a couple months. and then slowly....

Then personally, id just tell him to fuck off.

i told him today he was pathetic. then i left. he'll call me in a week and apologize. and he threw the 20 clones in the thrash because it somehow makes him feel cool. "look at me i will just toss them." with a little attitude.

Jesus, my kid brother wouldnt act that immature. actually kinda sad to think of what those little guys may have been one day...

I've got a 40-something cousin that is just the same. A grown kid. I just try to minimize their damage on my life and REFUSE to promise them what they want. They bitch and bitch that we don't hang out...but it's pure hell when we do. Life's too short for that bullshit.

yeah, i know people like this. I bet they dont even corner the bowl when they take green.

the guys just all about his money. finishes in 6 weeks. stuffs all fluffy and covered in mildew. then he comes over and tells me everthing i'm doing is wrong. i say look at this rock hard nug. he comes back with "yeah, but you didn't blah, blah, blah and you blahed, blahed, blahed". "What the hell are you talking about?" then i got to work literally hand-in-hand with the guy. he's the bosses little premadonna so i have to take it. i smoke alot!

u said this guys got a 'mentor'? how come he doesnt have that guy help him out all the time?

the "mentor" is paddling the other side of the idiot boat. guys getting 2lbs outta 4000w. sounds meager for a mentor.

fdd, this geezer needs a swift headbutt. I swear, it really works. Next time he pisses you off, just land your nut hard on the bridge of his nose. If you've done it properly you should hear a satisfying squelch, followed by a gush of blood. Also followed by a scream, and the geezer dropping to his knees. You may also knock him out... but then you'll have to wait around for him to wake up so he gets the message properly.

I guarantee this'll work. At least if not the first time... even the dumbest fuck will get it by the second.

And the mentor... wait till harvest and go and take his shit.

we were at a job site. we are trying to stand up a 20' tall aluminum catwalk frame. i have it straddling on top of are rickety scissor lift. he's on the ground. i'm 15' in the air. the things already teetering and i have to dive forward. well i have vertigo issues so i'm crouched down and scared. he starts mocking me. call me names and what not. i look down and in my most serious tone tell him i'm scared to death of heights, quit screwing around and help. he keeps mocking ( jeez just typing this out makes me realize how childish he is). so i climb down the back of the scissor lift leaving it in the air. i tell him you do it. he giggles, "i was just kidding". i say NO GET THE F%^K UP THERE AND DO IT YOU LITTLE *&^&^&*()(*&^$#. he walks away almost crying and sits in the truck the rest of the morning. a plumber overhears all this and calls my boss. I get called into the office and WARNED to quit "blowing up" on my co-workers. i try to explain what happened. he says "Oh, that's just how the guy is. Deal with it. love my job. hate my boss.

I could not be you... you have such restraint. You should tell your boss, tough, it's the way you are too. You shouldn't have to work around snivelling bitches (I don't mean that in a derogatory way to women).

i actually did. straight up told him he could not teach me anything because i was smarter than him (my boss). he looked at me puzzled for a minute and says, "If you feel you have nothing left to learn than i'm sorry for you". WHAT? i just told you you were an idiot, idiot. i can sneak out and blaze whenever i want though. and drives to the job site are a smoke out. give and take i guess.

Yeah, but also... 'all's fair in love and war.' Meaning, just do a bit more taking. Only when it doesn't concern your own close people of course... then it's about more giving. There will always be people prepared to take, and there will always be people quite happy to stand by and let them.