getting scared!!!!!!

This is why you never say anything to anyone. Don't be scared be aware. Each person who knows increases the chances of getting caught or robbed 10 fold. Stay safe and stay quiet, my buddy grew this really great stuff is even too far often.
Another reason why i am one of the biggest carbon filter advocates out there.

Stock up on carbon filters, cameras, dogs (big ones that bark) and guns. Maybe even metal gate/ reinforcement for all doors to outside. Only way to do it these days.