Have you ever told or showed a GF that you grow??

my girlfriends always been cool with it and helped me out a ton, helped build my setup and care for the plants, and she doesnt even smoke. just keep it to yourself until you think you want to move in with them, then, find a way to tell them. if theyre chill they will understand why you needed to be discrete about it, and wont care/will help!

You guys that have girl friends that help you grow & you can really trust are very lucky. I on the other hand have not found one that I trust enough to even let know i smoke

I was thinking about it several years ago, but I didn't. And looking back on it now, I'm glad that I chose not to.

some good suggestions. I'd say if your going that route don't show her a closet full of mature flowering plants to start with. I'd start with some seedlings to start. There are many good reasons to talk to her about it. No more dealing with street dealers,thugs that might get you busted or ripped off. Lower cost of weed and supeior quality. If you have been growing for a while and she doesn't know about it I'd treat the conversation with her about the most private of things in life that should be for knowone but you and your sig. other. Like money, sex and growing. Your best of friends and family don't need to know details. I would layout the positives and your excitement about the hobby to her and go from there. LIke many things about woman timing and "how she feels today" might help. Good luck I see it bighting you in the ass via relationship or otherwise....unless she is unlike most others. One last thing about it....Look at the relationship....does she talk about things to her family or friends that you are surprised she does? That will tell you what she will do. Woman can't hide secrets...She will be drunk with her pals and wonder why you are throwing a fit when she shows her drunk pals your grow...She says..whats the big deal its just pot.....just pot....