HELP-loosing battle-pics

this is my first grow, sorry the pics are shitty..

using 240W (avaliable 360w) cfl, 150W mh growing one bubba kush bagseed. fan since day one, moister meter, temp control, filtered water set out. mg seedling start soil, have fox farm ocean forest for transplant. no nutes as of yet.

lsd, deisel, whit russian germin under t-12 not even sprouted yet.

have been fighting this battle on what i thought was spider mites, palnt 3 1/2 weeks old. so i bought so neem-py oil. sprayed the plant 3 times day with proper mixture for 3 days now. still seeing problems. the origional leaves have completely fallen off. wondering if it's spider mites, too much neem-py (thought was safe use as directed) or if i need something more to kill the bastards..

please help people, i got some serious seeds bought from speedy..who is the man..germin in the next room..gotta get this under control!!!

Bogus bro, It is such a pain when lil bs like this happens. the neem should work alright, but if not maybe consider transplanting to new meduim. hope they are just floating the soil rather than in with the root system, If they are they might transfer if ya dig. Try to grab some FoxFarm Ocean forrest soil (best stuff imo) and transplant into a larger pot, that way hopefully you might kill two bird with stone stone. Transplant to bigger pot/ kill, get rid of unwanted visiter assbags! There are a lot of help guides here thay are very useful as well as people who will say do your own hw, but i'm not about that. this site is here for a community and as a tool so keep looking bro. If a transplant and the neem do not work.....maybe that one is a loss, but please look at all your option before you trash it. Keep the others away from the :infested one(s) or do you think all of your babies are ill? good luck

thanks man, i have tried looking..thanks for not being a ass i'd give u a +rep if i could...but my plant looks even worse than ever today, i mean it practically looks dead.. if i squeezed it, it would turn in ash.. i'm so sad, and worried that my little babbies next door are going to get eaten as well!!!!!! could this be anything other than spider mites?