I’ve seen similar growth in extremely long flowering sativas and certain autoflowers, especially when an equatorial sativa is crossed with ruderalis (like an auto white widow); any chance this one is an auto? For some reason the bud structure looks “thin”.....for your original question, to me, male parts always look almost the same size and general shape as a seed, even in herms......i spotted the protruding hair and identified yours as a female b/c i didnt see that weird, roundish seed shaped male pollen sack.