sarah22
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hehehehe k i'll keep that in mind
hm, some advice? about guys...
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d.s.m.
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What signs do you give when you are interested in a man?
glassblower3000
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if those are your lips at the bottom of your page, then trust me he likes you!!!
DTR
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unless they are your best friend and it might ruin a friendship just ask them out whats the worst that can happen or if you dont want to be that direct set something up with them and your friends and have your friends flake at the last minuet
how long are you gonna make them wait tho that might be a deal breaker for alot of guys unless your doing other things
how long are you gonna make them wait tho that might be a deal breaker for alot of guys unless your doing other things
Vindicated
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There was this one chick at my work that I would talk to during break, just to be nice. I probably sent her mixed singles without even realizing it, because one day she comes over and leans on my desk, stares right into my eyes, and I couldn't tell if she wanted me to kiss her or have an eye staring contest. But I ended up looking away because she was creeping me out. The next day I find out she is pissed and now things are really awkward between us.
I'm not even interested in her anymore, just because she came off so weird. that any feelings I might have had her for flew out the window. If she had acted a little more coy and maybe flirted a bit, I would have totally been into her.
Another thing I've notice and I know girls & guys are the same here... as soon as you hear or think someone else likes you, you start liking them. Unless their fuckin ugly, in which case your a phone call away from requesting a restraining order. But really, once so and so says their into you, you start imaging yourself together with them and soon the little butterflies start coming.
So... if you think someone is into you, I say you should flirt and whether they liked you or not, its almost a moot issue. If you look alright and you kinda "match" (look good together) you can get 'em.
I'm not even interested in her anymore, just because she came off so weird. that any feelings I might have had her for flew out the window. If she had acted a little more coy and maybe flirted a bit, I would have totally been into her.
Another thing I've notice and I know girls & guys are the same here... as soon as you hear or think someone else likes you, you start liking them. Unless their fuckin ugly, in which case your a phone call away from requesting a restraining order. But really, once so and so says their into you, you start imaging yourself together with them and soon the little butterflies start coming.
So... if you think someone is into you, I say you should flirt and whether they liked you or not, its almost a moot issue. If you look alright and you kinda "match" (look good together) you can get 'em.
FUPAGUNT
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Was there physical contact?what about just kinda getting into your personal space? standing over your shoulder to read something in your hand...etc. does that count? lol im sorry for all the questions...i really just need a lot of help with this crap
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Priscilla420
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Yeah, I would probably take that as being kinda flirty. Its like a subtle way of trying to get closer to you (without making it obvious) and a subtle way of showing interest in you by paying attention to what you're doing/reading.i can always tell when someone in sincere. especially if im able to see their eyes. no one has ever lied to my face and me not known about it. i may act like i believe them just to avoid an argument...but i always know.
what about just kinda getting into your personal space? standing over your shoulder to read something in your hand...etc. does that count? lol im sorry for all the questions...i really just need a lot of help with this crap
blazin256
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if i had to guess (which is all i ever do in life) id say if he/they arent askin you out, he/they just want u to make the move on him. he'll get you in bed and dump you and call you a whore. now i know girls talk to each other and all u gatta do is ask any of your girl friends if this has happened to them if you dont already know. OR...you just may be so hot that the guy thinks youll shoot him down. but either way if i were you, just get one of your girl friends to ask whichever guy friend, to see if he likes you.
tnrtinr
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How old are you?
You appear decent enough looking to know what an interested guy acts like.
Prude girls are a turn-off for me. If you project that (which I assume you do because I have read comments you have made in the past on this board that raise eyebrows); it could be why the vultures are not circling. I never pursued girls that said I will only have sex after _____. I can name 3 girls off the top of my head that I was interested in but never pursued because they declared exactly what had to happen before they would have sex. I was a turn-off to know that if I checked off pre-delineated criteria I would get sex. I always thought that it should happen when it felt right reguardless of anything else. If someone didn't think like me about sex; even girls I was interested in - I knew they were wrong for me and moved on.
You appear decent enough looking to know what an interested guy acts like.
Prude girls are a turn-off for me. If you project that (which I assume you do because I have read comments you have made in the past on this board that raise eyebrows); it could be why the vultures are not circling. I never pursued girls that said I will only have sex after _____. I can name 3 girls off the top of my head that I was interested in but never pursued because they declared exactly what had to happen before they would have sex. I was a turn-off to know that if I checked off pre-delineated criteria I would get sex. I always thought that it should happen when it felt right reguardless of anything else. If someone didn't think like me about sex; even girls I was interested in - I knew they were wrong for me and moved on.
CrackerJax
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Guys who are really attracted to you usually point north.
SarcasticHobbes
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I'm going to have to be honest and I truly hope my opinion does not really hurt or offend you. From my perspective and that of a lot of guys I know is this; the bigger your size is, the less interest there is.
Now I'm not saying most men go for model size ultra skinny girls, because most of us don't. We find that gross. But fat girls get more guys who are not interested than are.
Now I'm not saying most men go for model size ultra skinny girls, because most of us don't. We find that gross. But fat girls get more guys who are not interested than are.
HoLE
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are you being SarcasticHobbes,,lol,,I'm older,,and back in the day we would just tell a chick we were into them,,as for sizing,,I've had model girls in between girls and heavy girls,,,tell ya tha truth,,if your into someone it's not all physical if your really into them,,and my wife now who'm I love more than anything is not model material,,but she gives the Best BJ I ever had in my life,,makes me brekky,,lets me be myself,,and actually got me into growing even though she doesn't smoke herself,,,if your hollow and horny,it's the shell your interested in,,if your looking for a soulmate,,you end up in a relationship with depth and love and respect,,no matter what's on the outside
sarah22
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i agree with you on that 100%, and if i wasnt a virgin still, then i would probably be a bit more open to having sex with someone that i wasnt serious with...but for my first time...i dont know. i want it to at least have meaning to me. i dont want it to be random.
sarah22
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see, i know this lol. which is what makes it all so confusing to me.
sarah22
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everybody always tells me that i'll always remember my first...so i would like for it to be a good memory
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chitownsmoking
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if a man..... gropes your ass and then slobberly stix his tounge in our ear.... its a givin lol
sarah22
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lol thanks. no one has ever done that to me..haha
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blazin256
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well good luck in your search misseverybody always tells me that i'll always remember my first...so i would like for it to be a good memory