How Common Is It For Women To Not Reach Climax?

Padawanbater2

Padawanbater2

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I found this a bit unusual...

Not just one, but two different female friends of mine told me they've never reached climax, one of them with a partner and the other one at all, EVER!

These young women are in their early 20's, is this common for other females?

I was also curious about something else, I've had different answers to this one too.. Some chicks say actual penetration is what gets them off the most, and others say clitoral stimulation. What do your life experiences say?

For me it seems to be about 50/50 so far.

Discuss.
 
she.grows.secrets

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The key to a great female orgasm is about relaxation and comfort with the partner they're with, imo. If a woman is young and doesn't know her own body; her likes and dislikes, it may be almost impossible for her to know what to expect.

I believe that the porn industry has severely fucked up the way women come to expect sex to feel. Fake screaming moans are what girls think a real orgasm is supposed to feel like. Sometimes it's that way. When your toes curl and your body arches and the moans are automatic, but not everyone has mind blowing orgasms like Sasha Grey or Riley Steele. It's wrong to expect anything of your body when having sex. Just ride the wave of sensation and enjoy. Cumming isn't what sex is about. Sex is what sex is about.

I personally think both g spot and clitoral orgasms are nice, but not every partner will be able to give you both. Different skill sets for different people. I like clit stimulation best. I find it's easiest to achieve with those who are new to girl on girl.
 
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redivider

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i find that women who don't have orgasms are women who don't want to.

i think its a psychological thing, dating all the way back to god knows what.
 
420God

420God

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I have always found those women to be uptight and full of themselves, bitches I like to call them. :bigjoint:
 
rambler420

rambler420

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Women who are not comfortable with their bodies or their sexuality are going to have a hard time relaxing enough. If they've never gotten off at all, they need to go behind closed doors and do some homework to get to know what their body likes and what feels good. They may not recognize the feeling and don't know how to concentrate on it.

As a woman, I can tell you very few men have been able to get me off. I can do it myself in under 5 minutes, so I know it's not like I can't get there. It's like they don't pay enough attention to my reactions or they're just trying too damned hard. Some try to sprint out the door and some don't know where the buttons are.

Sometimes it's the woman. Sometimes it's the partner.
 
rambler420

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Padawanbater2 said:
I was also curious about something else, I've had different answers to this one too.. Some chicks say actual penetration is what gets them off the most, and others say clitoral stimulation. What do your life experiences say?

For me it seems to be about 50/50 so far.

Discuss.[/COLOR]
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Forgot to address this part.

I think it depends on if a woman has figured out how to have a gspot orgasm. If you don't know where your gspot is, vaginal penetration can get a little boring, to be honest with you, if that's all you're doing. Once you figure out how to find and focus on your g-spot, and for those of us lucky ones, if you figure out how to ejaculate, you're forever hooked on gspot orgasms and could care less if you have a clitoral orgasm. HUGE difference. G spot orgasms can happen continuously. Clitoral orgasms are more powerful and it gets sensitive to the touch.
 
OzWeeder

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trust is the biggest thing ive found. some women experience orgasm but still hold back the intensity of it (not consciously mind you) due to trust issues with their partner... and by that i mean that i mean she's afriad of REALLY LETTING GO and EXPRESSING her emotional responses PURELY. as trust builds and she knows you're not going to throw a label on her like 'whore' or 'slut' (although there are light/positive sides to those labels that can be used) or think less of her if she TRULY expresses her sexuality then she allow the pleasure to increase.
 
Tw3nti3ight

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she.grows.secrets said:
The key to a great female orgasm is about relaxation and comfort with the partner they're with, imo. If a woman is young and doesn't know her own body; her likes and dislikes, it may be almost impossible for her to know what to expect.

I believe that the porn industry has severely fucked up the way women come to expect sex to feel. Fake screaming moans are what girls think a real orgasm is supposed to feel like. Sometimes it's that way. When your toes curl and your body arches and the moans are automatic, but not everyone has mind blowing orgasms like Sasha Grey or Riley Steele. It's wrong to expect anything of your body when having sex. Just ride the wave of sensation and enjoy. Cumming isn't what sex is about. Sex is what sex is about.

I personally think both g spot and clitoral orgasms are nice, but not every partner will be able to give you both. Different skill sets for different people. I like clit stimulation best. I find it's easiest to achieve with those who are new to girl on girl.
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Agreed 100 percent!!! Wise you are. The thread starter...is a moron or moran where the others congregate...

It's about setting, kinda like smoking up...to avoid anxiety...

Women, not young girls, which is what females are in their 20's...like sensuality, to be desired and not treated like a piece of meat, touching, flirting, passion and the excitement of the "hunt" so to speak....

Maturity is such a GIFT.

:peace:
 
Tw3nti3ight

Tw3nti3ight

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Question for the OP, which he didn't bring up so he obviously never has....

made a female squirt in ultimate bliss!!!


:finger::grin:

:peace:

KD
 
sweetwild

sweetwild

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They're lying they don't want to tell you that they've masturbaited!! Also, I'm pretty sure it's 40/60 penetration/clitoral stimulation, perhaps even less. Most women need clitoral stimulation; I'm one of them, lawls.
 
Padawanbater2

Padawanbater2

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Tw3nti3ight said:
Question for the OP, which he didn't bring up so he obviously never has....

made a female squirt in ultimate bliss!!!


:finger::grin:

:peace:

KD
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Never made a chick squirt, never been with a squirter I guess..

Have made 4 chicks cum though, but whose counting...

Take your hostility elsewhere, pal.
 
she.grows.secrets

she.grows.secrets

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Tw3nti3ight said:
Women, not young girls, which is what females are in their 20's...like sensuality, to be desired and not treated like a piece of meat, touching, flirting, passion and the excitement of the "hunt" so to speak....
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I have aging issues. o.o
I call all women girls. And I hate it when someone calls me Ma'am instead of Miss. Ew. I'm 22, not a hundred.
 
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