ok at an average temp of 82 degrees and 45-54% humidity I water every 3-5 days, thoroughly, by which I mean that at least a cup of water drains from the bottom, but I do not leave them sitting in the water, usually I will go 5 days water then 3 days and water with nutes (I use low strength nutes for soil),
If I plant on being gone for 5-7 days, then I fill up a 5 gallon bucket with water and submerge each pot in the water until it is thoroughly soaked, and I use 1-2" of hydroton across the top of the soil to keep the water from evaporating to quickly.
good rule of thumb i stole from someone on here, "Stick your finger in the soil about 1 inch down, if it feels moist dont water, if it feels bone dry water"
also you can get a moisture, soil ph, light meter combo for under 10 bucks on amazon the bond co. one is what I gots