thats fine.....i hope your in a community that will not judge and accept you. However I must say that it is totally fine that you are gay and you love other men. But I must say how annoying it is when guys are "flammers" "queenz" or "divas". I have no problem with homosexuals, but I do have a problem with the "flammers" who feel they must shout it from the rooftops and turn any seemingly normal situation about their homosexuality. I am happy for you in your decision, but please remain the same cool stoner guy you have always been.