Is it Really worth having A BF/GF?

Ifrit

Ifrit

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As the title states I am uncertain if relationships are really worthwhile to get into. I have seen so many horrible breakups that it tarnishes my overall view of relationships. I only see drama and heartache from getting involved with someone else. It's also an added risk if you grow and have a GF/BF because that's a person that knows. The less that know the safer you are.


Thoughts?


What's with people that go through relationships like shoes? They meet someone and then break up and then they're with someone new. It's as if their desperate or lack the ability to live without someone.
 
kinetic

kinetic

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So you're saying you would be like everyone else?
With risk comes reward. Not all relationships end in failure just because they end. You are an individual that should be able to make better decisions based upon smart observations of horrible breakups. You should probably get your high school diploma first before you start dating. It's better to be succesful later in life then have a bf/gf to distract you from you education.
Good Luck.
 
april

april

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I finally have someone I call my BF for the first time almost a yr and a half...nothing makes me happier, seriously I giggle like a retard every time I get a text...such a great feeling.

It's about finding someone u can't be without...
 
UncleBuck

UncleBuck

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Ifrit said:
As the title states I am uncertain if relationships are really worthwhile to get into. I have seen so many horrible breakups that it tarnishes my overall view of relationships. I only see drama and heartache from getting involved with someone else. It's also an added risk if you grow and have a GF/BF because that's a person that knows. The less that know the safer you are.


Thoughts?


What's with people that go through relationships like shoes? They meet someone and then break up and then they're with someone new. It's as if their desperate or lack the ability to live without someone.
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well, it's not gonna suck itself.
 
Ifrit

Ifrit

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kinetic said:
So you're saying you would be like everyone else?
With risk comes reward. Not all relationships end in failure just because they end. You are an individual that should be able to make better decisions based upon smart observations of horrible breakups. You should probably get your high school diploma first before you start dating. It's better to be succesful later in life then have a bf/gf to distract you from you education.
Good Luck.
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I have a Bachelors of Science in Environmental Science. Let's see what you've got. The point I am making is that nothing is forever and that goes for relationships. That's really narcissistic of you to even bring up education when the discussion did not include anything about education.
 
UncleBuck

UncleBuck

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Ifrit said:
I have a Bachelors of Science in Environmental Science. Let's see what you've got. The point I am making is that nothing is forever and that goes for relationships. That's really narcissistic of you to even bring up education when the discussion did not include anything about education.
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pretty sure kinetic works for NASA and wipes his ass with environmental science degrees. sorry.
 
kinetic

kinetic

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Ifrit said:
I have a Bachelors of Science in Environmental Science. Let's see what you've got. The point I am making is that nothing is forever and that goes for relationships. That's really narcissistic of you to even bring up education when the discussion did not include anything about education.
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Well you came off as a virgin who never even touched a girl. Also you didn't show anything you simply stated a degree on the internet. Did you go to ESF by chance? I am a little vain to be honest. I don't make many bones about it. No, nothing is forever, if you are tied to that tennant so strongly then you should probably venture deep into Buddism and become a monk. You know, Guatama's teaching about imperanence.
 
Ifrit

Ifrit

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kinetic said:
Well you came off as a virgin who never even touched a girl. Also you didn't show anything you simply stated a degree on the internet. Did you go to ESF by chance? I am a little vain to be honest. I don't make many bones about it. No, nothing is forever, if you are tied to that tennant so strongly then you should probably venture deep into Buddism and become a monk. You know, Guatama's teaching about imperanence.
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How about going out for a hookup, unless you're bar shy or not attractive. I think this conversation is something that needs to be discussed at Shroomery or Mycotopia. Many seem to be unable to handle strong psychedelics that reach into the depths of the mind that weed can't penetrate. Psychedelics give the used a profound overview of life as it is.
 
Ifrit

Ifrit

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UncleBuck said:
pretty sure kinetic works for NASA and wipes his ass with environmental science degrees. sorry.
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You're vastly flawed in your assumptions. ES is the booming industry because of the energy crisis along with the climate changes. There are so many facets to ES that you really can't go wrong. I am in the battery research facet.
 
Indagrow

Indagrow

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I like batteries.

also got a pretty sweet chick currently, it's just a matter of time till I get bored its in my nature. But yeah it's a symbiotic situation having a bf/gf that's why we do it I think..all about efficiency
 
kinetic

kinetic

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Ifrit said:
How about going out for a hookup, unless you're bar shy or not attractive.
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I really do appreciate the offer, but I'm a married man now. Thanks you though, makes this guy find aging a little easier this evening.
 
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silasraven

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yes and no. yes because being lonly sucks, but if you find a chick who loves to grow its always a bonus.here the no part. fucking worst idea in the world. someone coming into your life and telling you how things are going to be. someone who sits there and starts off cool but then ends up turning on you. so now you run the risk of being caught and going to jail, fuck that. not to mention if you really piss her off its that and someone robs you of your plants but leaving enough of a hint in the house to get cops in there no matter what. its not worth it because you end up wasting allot of time, money , and energy. if your smart you take down, ditch the person , rebuild. but even that said its fucking horrid to go threw a relationship and end up getting out because of bullshit.
 
neosapien

neosapien

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Ifrit said:
You're vastly flawed in your assumptions. ES is the booming industry because of the energy crisis along with the climate changes. There are so many facets to ES that you really can't go wrong. I am in the battery research facet.
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Are those Sanyo Eneloops all they're really cracked up to be? I was thinking of getting a couple of those and a solar charger and going off the grid. How many of those "AAA" would I need to run a 600watter?
 
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NWGrower7

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Ifrit said:
I have a Bachelors of Science in Environmental Science. Let's see what you've got. The point I am making is that nothing is forever and that goes for relationships. That's really narcissistic of you to even bring up education when the discussion did not include anything about education.
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Because this a childish question. EVERY RELATIONSHIP HAS ITS ISSUES AT ONE POINT OR ANOTHER. We live in a word where we can think for ourselves therefore guaranteeing disagreements, another reason world peace will never be possible.
 
mysunnyboy

mysunnyboy

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Ifrit said:
How about going out for a hookup, unless you're bar shy or not attractive. I think this conversation is something that needs to be discussed at Shroomery or Mycotopia. Many seem to be unable to handle strong psychedelics that reach into the depths of the mind that weed can't penetrate. Psychedelics give the used a profound overview of life as it is.
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i love acid but i'm nuts now so i don't want to risk it. :eyesmoke:
 
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