Thats the other thing.I had that recently too! A friend who owns clubs here wanted to bring his business partner for a 'show and tell'. I flatly refused as the guy is not someone I'll be working with, he can't even grow, they have spider mites at theirs. There was no advantage to me showing him whatsoever! At least they asked though!![]()
It's funny that I wrote that because I'm at my other place right now and have just seen one spider mite in the main room! Where there's one, there are more so I'm looking for Neem oil now! LolThats the other thing.
Garden hoppers with spidermites all over their clothes is a major turn off.
Plus they like to touch the plants n shit.
My serenity level rose sharply once I was the only human in my garden.
Those glory hole adds on Craigslist aren't helping..Depends what they look like. Is that shallow? So what I'm shallow.
its nature, Don't fight it.Depends what they look like. Is that shallow? So what I'm shallow.
Cutoff as in : next time he calls and thereafter I just so happen to be out of stocknow if you cut him off is he gonna snitch? something to think about...i tell people up front to never bring ANYONE else when we meet and it's never at my crib.
Some people are so innocent they may not understand the situation the same paranoid way we do.Hes more my mechanic then my pal and also he works with my bf. He has on occasion picked up topicals and medicine for his mother. He gave me no indication he was bringing ppl to my house.
I figure we are all adults and it should be an unspoken rule of respect not to bring ppl to my house. I have even had roommates that I figure its an unspoken rule to clean up after yourself when you walk into a clean kitchen you should leave it the way you found it. But noooooooooo. People are lazy dicks and very disrespectful with my shit. I couldnt fathom doing that to anyone
Oh shit,When he said " I knew you would say no". right there tells me hes disrespecting me and trying to get one over on me... no one does either to me![]()
none of my friends will do thatwhen your friends bring people you dont know to your house?
That's a good way to think about it man, I just pull out my revolver. I just learned something from you. Plus rep or what ever it is you guys say. I never thought about the idea, they arrant as paranoid as I am. @Diabolical666 Disrespect is inexcusable though. That's why its good to have rules that are made very clear and never broken. Cut off is what I would do. Fuck your boyfriends friends. Well no don't fuck your boyfriends friends. You know what I mean?Some people are so innocent they may not understand the situation the same paranoid way we do.
Some people dont have to live be the paranoid standards.
We do.
Either way, I would very nicely let him to know this is your safe haven and not to bring intruders.
In case he is really sneaky/dumb make sure he understands this also means
don't dump your passengers out of the car to wait around the corner either.
Then reach out and playfully tweak his nipple and never speak about it again.
You know, for dramatic effect.