i would call it a girl too.
Patience is going to be your friend give it a couple of days and let it settle in and she will flash you a sign .
And yes i am being serious .
thanks, i just needed reassurance btw i have had the plant for just about 2 weeks i got it right after it finished veg stage it has grown about 3-4 inches and the little buds there developed about 4-5 days ago the plant is a foot tall
i now see what you guys are talking about i watched a detailed video about checking the sex of the plant and i see the buds are getting longer not fatter