moving to a new state

i really am having a hard time but im moving to a new state sometime next year im really bugging about my girl going of to college, not being around people i grew up with and know mostly just the 4 5 true or really good friends i have ill still be able to keep in touch with a 2-3 hour drive. My concerns are what should i do to get on with my life and get over the homesick feeling, im not downing moving im just worried how im going to meet new people and have a better quality of life that growing up here its like i just love my girl so much its been 2 years no cheating on both ends so its like ill need to move on while shes in college but wtf do i do man this shits hard to grasp, any advice guys everytime im high somehow this comes to my mind i need some words of insperation from all that can help

Id get a job and you'll most likely get cool with the people you work with.
You can also meet some girls at the bar.

Explore your new environment, go for walks, take in new sites... and since you're only 2-3 hours away from the old place, you should make regular trips back.

I moved from Louisiana to Alaska... big change, but worth it because I found my home.

good looks guys i guess im just making it seem worse then it would be ill be fine, fucking first love hurts to think itll end, i figured might as well start new hobbys, walking my pit through the woods with me maybe find some new spots yeaaaa i know its just the change that scares me, any advice on what to watch out for with new people just from experience?? its so hard these days to find down to earth people who arent trying to get something out of you besides your company

if some astronauts never took a leap for Mankind,,,where would we be,,live large,,and go hard,,,,,,,,,,,one giant step for eyes ableed,,,,one gigantic step to your future,,,,,,don't ever be afraid

Just use your best judgment, dude. You will know who's down to earth and who just wants something from you. You seem to have a good head on your shoulders just based on the two posts of yours I've read. Sorry to hear about you having to leave your first love. I don't know if it is better to have loved and lost, but I know it sucks. Good luck

Porn.. It cures all

I moved from Hawaii to Idaho. It's tough man, it's tough. First of all the weed sucks out here compared to back home. I'm killing my lungs trying to get high, but the good thing is that you meet new people, whether doing something you love (example for me I made friends skating around), or doing something you wouldn't imagine make a friend during (laundry, class, shopping). But the point I guess I'm trying to make is that making friends in new environments come spontaneously. You just have to try. I mean you can't just hide out in your room and wait for someone to knock on the door, get outside and be friendly. As for people using you, use your gut instincts.

yeaaa you guys are right and hawaii wtffff are you doing smoking that, get some fucking seeds man and enjoy this summer idk bout you but the weather here is already in the 70s and im on the north east cost where its usually 30-40 threw out april. i got most of my fam which i didn't even know of really in the same area so now its turning for the better and i think with the help of all ma niggas on riu ill be just fine and who else besides you guys could i talk about my true interest, my medicine

no one cause then id be dry snitching

You could take a community college class or lifetime achievement class. School is a way to meet people. Community college classes or non-academic classes are pretty cheap.

Life's a funny thing sometimes. For better or worse it keeps moving forward.

I once dated a girl that I was hopelessly, head over heels in love with. We were together for almost two years and I was certain that I would marry this girl. I couldn't get enough of her and I was completely consumed by this girl. She was 17 and I were a young 19 when we started dating. At that age you don't really know who you are yet and what you want out of life. So, we kind of started drifting apart and when we broke up I was devastated. I really thought we'd be together for the rest of our lives.

Garth Brooks has a song and I think it's called " Thank God for unanswered prayers" that follows the same theme of losing someone you prayed you'd always be with.

Six months after we broke up and several one night stands later I met the real woman of my dreams. We've been together almost 24 years now and married for 22. I look back now and think I was so lucky that I didn't marry the other girl. She's been married 3 or 4 times now and I hear she really did a number on the poor bastards she used up and left.

So, all you have to do is get out of bed each morning, give thanks for being alive and healthy, and with very little effort on your part life will present you with opportunities for happiness in ways you never expected. Keep your chin up, because life is good.

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yeaaa you guys are right and hawaii wtffff are you doing smoking that, get some fucking seeds man and enjoy this summer idk bout you but the weather here is already in the 70s and im on the north east cost where its usually 30-40 threw out april. i got most of my fam which i didn't even know of really in the same area so now its turning for the better and i think with the help of all ma niggas on riu ill be just fine and who else besides you guys could i talk about my true interest, my medicine

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i would grow but i live in dorms

damnnn great idea on the school courses maybe if i find one in law and or botany im sure ill find some use in that , man thats inspirational over 20 years, im a believer in love so hearing that just makes it easier for me to look at the bright side reallly appreciate that bro, and hawaii why not rent a zipcar or uhaul or something on those lines all it takes is a little tlc and youll be the one knowing where it comes from, thats the most appealing reason you know whats in it and know theres no fucking around of the buds