My Girl Doesn't Want Me Smoke Weed No More

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Sakhal chea

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one11 said:
yo man. you are pussy whipped if you are even considering quitting smoking for her. don't be such a bitch. who's got the dick in the relationship? you or her? kiss-ass
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Omfg dude LMAO probably the best advice here!!! Girls want a man thats a challange, not a predictable friend, god made men stronger with a penis for a reason and gave a girl pussy and made them smaller for a reason. Be a man and handle it like a man. Remember the one who loves the least has the most power and to me looks like she has the power.
 
GreenGurl

GreenGurl

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I know I'm relatively new to this site, but all this female abuse is getting really old, guys.

I'd advise like a number other posters, get her exact reason for not liking you smoking. Then, decide for yourself if she has a point. Then, respond accordingly. Regardless of her opinion, it is really healthy to stop using all drugs/alcohol every now and then. If you find yourself making excuses, you might have a problem. Best of luck to you, and steer clear of her dad.
 
bajafox

bajafox

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That really sucks man, I feel your pain. I gave up smoking because my girlfriend at the time (now my wife) hated pot heads. We went to Jamaica for our honeymoon 3 years after I had quit and she tried it, we are both medical patients in California now. If you love her, give it up, if she loves you, she'll come around

Good luck
 
Serapis

Serapis

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krayz211 said:
i really have a problem with my girlfriend...weve been together for about 4yrs now...i just dnt understand why she doesnt want me smoking weed no more when im smoking weed since the first time she met me(she actually saw me smoking weed the first time we met,then i court her)first 2yrs was all good she dont mind if i smoke weed..then in 3 yrs we broke up coz she has problem with my mj...we sitll keep in touch(talkin about the problem)since the break up...i know my girl loves me and i really do love her..so what i did was...i told her i'll quit smoking weed if she comes back...now wer back together but im cheating on her i always hide my mj so she wont caught me and all she know i totally quit smoking weed....
my problem is...i really dont want to lie on her..i dont know how will i talk to her about it and say i lie...i dont want to lose her again and i dnt want to stop smoking weed...
can somebody help me of my problem how will i talk to her about her problem of me smoking weed...
we live in the philippines and so you guys know we really have a different culture here.. filipinos see weed as a devil..
pls sumbody help me i dont want to lose her and my mj..
how will i talk to her?
tnx in advance and sorry for my bad english
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You have to decide what is more important to you.

Personally, any chick that puts an ultimatum up to me can carry her ass out the door.
 
Serapis

Serapis

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bajafox said:
That really sucks man, I feel your pain. I gave up smoking because my girlfriend at the time (now my wife) hated pot heads. We went to Jamaica for our honeymoon 3 years after I had quit and she tried it, we are both medical patients in California now. If you love her, give it up, if she loves you, she'll come around

Good luck
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How did her trying it make you both card carriers now? Is there ANYONE in Cali that doesn't carry a card? might as well 219 all the way!!
 
Unnk

Unnk

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lol bro some people never change i dated a girl 3 years had to hide my smoked cause after 1 she told me to quit i just smoked behind her back 2 years got caught guilt tripped and stupid shit just tell her flat out your gonna smoke always will smoke and thats just who YOU are and if she does n like you then she can take a hike all the drama and head games aint worth shit man bitches think they can mold a man they want dont they know we are wild beasts
 
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perpetual*dankness

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Man I ran into the same situation with my girl... do like I did. Tell her you have smoked weed since you first met and you prob always will. If she didn't have a problem with it then why now all the sudden? It's not like it causes you to beat her or lie or any shit like that... so just stand your ground and tell her like it is. If she's giving you ultimatums now imagine how it will be 20 yrs from now. And above all don't tell her you're going to quit b/c you will end up resenting the hell out of her, and she'll try to accuse you of lying to her whenever you smoke. Don't give her any more ammo. Girls are manipulative man, it's just the nature of the beast. But what you have to do is BE A MAN, and tell her you work hard and handle your shit so you are entitled to some personal freedom. Just my opinion, take it for what it is. But, this did work for me.
 
Amnesian

Amnesian

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Find something the gurl really likes i.e. shoes. Tell her you will stop smoking weed if she stops buying shoes. Try to compromise - chances are, she won't. Otherwise, stealth smoke... or say you will cut down and see what happens - would she compromise for you too?!...
 
Shannon Alexander

Shannon Alexander

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If you told her you had quit for her then there is no good outcome and no easy way to say hey I've been lying to you... I have been smoking weed all of this time... all that it does is reinforce the idea in their heads that it is a destructive addictive drug...

In short you fucked up...
 
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Ric Haze

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Dont lie. Tell her the truth as it is...
If she doesnt like it, Smile tell her you love her, that she will always be special to you. Dont let the door hit you on your way out sweet heart.
 
themanwiththeplan

themanwiththeplan

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krayz211 said:
sorry guys i dont have any idea that this tread is still up....anyway, things really didnt do well between me and my girl...we broke up already...(2days b4 my birthday nov) she seen a lot wrong in me that i really dont understand..first is just the weed then this past few mons shes comin up with some new unreasonable things that starts an argument...

i talk to her and said that maybe shes not happy with me anymore...and the truth is im not happy with her either anymore maybe because of almost everyday argument..i really love her but what can i do if things really dont do well between both of us?!...

we still text (sms) she told me that she miss me and still love me....i still love her but im keepin it with me, im getting old and i dont want to ruin and waste may days with someone whom i think will never accept me for who i am...

1 thing i learned is you dont have to please anyone to understand and love you...
just be who you are (like i was before) and look for some who will understand and love you for who you are....

haha i really dont know that this tread will go this far...im kinda embarrass now but its all good i made this tread because i really lookin for some one who will understand my situation at that time and found that ROLL IT UP is best for my case^^

thanks for everyone! peace:)

well to answer some of you here i do have a job^^
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i know im 2 yrs too late but wait till the mass fear over marijuana ends and all of the sudden theres gonna be like 20 million ladies who want to kill themselves since they let go of "mr. right" because they smoke "that damn dope" and then they'll realize they were just idiots the entire time.

i personally wouldnt quit smoking (marijuana obviously) for anyone.

if someone wants to try and bitch me out because im "doing drugs" (marijuana isnt a drug..obviously) and doesnt want me because of that? ok. go ahead. go. leave.

if a girl really believes me smoking marijuana is me doing drugs then obviously she's far too foolish to be in a relationship with me in the first place. dumb tramps 2 the back of the line. i need some brains with my beauty.
 
guy incognito

guy incognito

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I had a gf give me the ultimatum that it was either her or the marijuana. Boy was she surprised when I lit up that joint. She walked away, but came crawling back. Once you get a taste of the thunder cock you just can't stay away.

EDIT: Also wanted to add I am currently growing in her basement. And I make her help me trim and do some of the maintenance. :o:hump::joint::weed:
 
themanwiththeplan

themanwiththeplan

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guy incognito said:
I had a gf give me the ultimatum that it was either her or the marijuana. Boy was she surprised when I lit up that joint. She walked away, but came crawling back. Once you get a taste of the thunder cock you just can't stay away.

EDIT: Also wanted to add I am currently growing in her basement. And I make her help me trim and do some of the maintenance. :o:hump::joint::weed:
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does she smoke now too?
 
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spandy

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My wife tried that shit with me, knowing this is who I was from day one. I told her I choose to be myself over being with her and having to pretend to be someone else. I love her to death, but having to pretend to be something I'm not for the rest of of my life just to be with her is something I just can't do, and she folded right then and there. Besides, I very much dislike who I am when I'm completely sober. Weed literally calms me down so I can be the guy I want to be. Without it I'm a fart in a skillet looking for someone to be an asshole to. You can't ask someone to be someone they dislike, it's selfish to put them through that just so you can be happy with the activities they do that really aren't your business.

It must have something to do with women always trying to form their man into this perfect little puppy dog that doesn't bark and only licks its own ass when given permission.
 
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spandy

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Couples are suppose to share their lives together. Telling someone what they can and can't do is dictating to your significant other who they are suppose to be, which defeats the whole sharing your lives together part. Might as well buy her a robot and a dildo if changing you is all they are trying to do.

You either love them and want to be with them, or you don't. Change yourself or leave the relationship.
 
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