YOU can only say NO until they threaten you, or hurt you or take away your freedom or possessions .. this is a very common way of thinking, so do not be too hard on yourself ..
i like to think differently , why would i want to follow the rest of the sheep ? that only makes things easy and predictable for those that wish to oppress me .. i like to question everything , every notion that exists , it is my right and duty to do so
when you give in and say YES what you are doing is giving the state jurisdiction over you, you are accepting you have been naughty and that you need to be punished .. then you beg for mercy .. like Oliver twist, please sir can i have some moar
i take a different view, i will always say NO, i will not give anyone the jurisdiction over me by consent
jail really isn't that scary, once you get over this, what more can they do to you, ??
you would be very surprised what happens if you do not agree and contract with the state
when you challenge what the state claims is the law, its funny how often that law seems to vanish and you hear no more
just some food for thought
peace