Not sure what to make of this.

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iamnobody

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There is this girl at work. We're really good friends. I've met her family. She's met my wife. We have tons in common and crack jokes all the time with each other. We flirt a lot, but I've never really thought anything of it seriously.

Well today we we're goofing off on a break, and somehow I ended up with an invite to grab her tits. Well I have one a honk just to run with the joke and thought that was that.

Well later on I tell her, "hey thanks for the grope." to which she responded, "anytime."

and of course me being a usual guy and thinking with the wrong head gave the same boob a squeeze. Next she tells me the others feeling left out and so yeah...

Anyway later on we're chatting while breaking down boxes and she tells me "that if she would get with anyone at work it would be me."


.... She knows I'm married. I've met her husband... and up until today I never really saw her in any way other than platonic.

Part of me thinks that she's just being overly flirtatious and she was just having a great day.

other part is telling me that she wants me.

and if so... not sure how to proceed here.
 
mr sunshine

mr sunshine

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iamnobody said:
There is this girl at work. We're really good friends. I've met her family. She's met my wife. We have tons in common and crack jokes all the time with each other. We flirt a lot, but I've never really thought anything of it seriously.

Well today we we're goofing off on a break, and somehow I ended up with an invite to grab her tits. Well I have one a honk just to run with the joke and thought that was that.

Well later on I tell her, "hey thanks for the grope." to which she responded, "anytime."

and of course me being a usual guy and thinking with the wrong head gave the same boob a squeeze. Next she tells me the others feeling left out and so yeah...

Anyway later on we're chatting while breaking down boxes and she tells me "that if she would get with anyone at work it would be me."


.... She knows I'm married. I've met her husband... and up until today I never really saw her in any way other than platonic.

Part of me thinks that she's just being overly flirtatious and she was just having a great day.

other part is telling me that she wants me.

and if so... not sure how to proceed here.
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Platonic... that's that shit I don't click on when I'm on Craigslist.
 
mr sunshine

mr sunshine

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iamnobody said:
Thinking logically now.

I just don't know what to say to her. Probably the closest person to a friend I actually have. I really don't want to lose that though.
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I'm sorry brother but that's fucking gay...just smoke a bowl and do your job.
 
PKHydro

PKHydro

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Not good! She's clearly down to fuck, but these things rarely go on for very long before shit hits the fan. A woman scorned will fuck your life up, and quick! I hope there wasn't any witnesses to the boob grab, joke or no joke. People run their mouths and word always ends up getting around to someone it shouldnt.

Keep the hands off. If it helps, just imagine your old lady at her job grabbing some dudes cock. Not good.
 
sunni

sunni

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you touched some girls tits and youhave a wife?

wow.....
ever herd of monogamy ?

im sure your wife wouldnt see it as "platonic" ..perhaps you should consider if you want to be with your wife
 
WeedFreak78

WeedFreak78

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Change the title to " i need your approval to cheat on my wife" and you'll get honest answers..otherwise..you know whats going on in your life...if you don't want to be with your wife anymore..be up front.. tell her..end it..face the consequences..then move on. It'll suck a lot less than cheating, and THEN her finding out. At least my way you could come out 50/50..infidelity can really screw up a divorce settlement for the one who committed the infidelity.
 
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iamnobody

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sunni said:
you touched some girls tits and you have a wife?

wow.....
ever herd of monogamy ?

im sure your wife wouldnt see it as "platonic" ..perhaps you should consider if you want to be with your wife
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Well when I told her she laughed about it and started making jokes.

She's not the jealous type. One of the reasons I married her.

Still though I don't want to put any thoughts in my co-workers head about something that's not going to happen.

Any ideas on what I should say to her? I'm not good at these types of situations and I want to stop this before it gets any more out of hand, and yes the flirting is over between us.

WeedFreak78 said:
Change the title to " i need your approval to cheat on my wife" and you'll get honest answers..otherwise..you know whats going on in your life...if you don't want to be with your wife anymore..be up front.. tell her..end it..face the consequences..then move on. It'll suck a lot less than cheating, and THEN her finding out. At least my way you could come out 50/50..infidelity can really screw up a divorce settlement for the one who committed the infidelity.
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but I don't want to cheat on my wife. I love my wife.

I'm more concerned with losing one of my best friends.
 
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