LOL!!! I am a Gemini.... we like variety.
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Biggravy22
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LOL!!! I am a Gemini.... we like variety.
Variety is good. I like variety as well, but I view sex as very primal. Sex is the only natural animal behavior (Besides fighting) that humans observe or take part in. It's me taking the woman...whether she likes it or not (I know that sounds bad, but hopefully you get my drift.). My wife is submissive when it comes to sex. So she could want sex, but If I don't go after it a certain way it passes me by.I've tried that slow whine, lovey dovey type sex, but every single time I end up tossing the other person around. I can't help it...I have aggression issues. lol.
ph03nix
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I agree. I like to feel like I have as much input as my partner. It's comforting to know that you can be loved and trusted for who you are inside. Some people like that. I'm one...
Each to their own, I guess. I couldn't enjoy being controlled in the bedroom, but that's just me. I have certain issues... I don't enjoy 'having sex', I like to make love. Sometimes I am submissive, and other times he's happy to lie back and let me be the dominant one. Our love life is both exciting and spicy... and if he wants something special, all he has to do is ask. No matter what it is, he's earned it by giving me the love that I need and letting me keep my self respect.
If you and your wife both enjoy rough sex, who has the right to tell you it's wrong? As long as you don't toss her around so much that it leaves bruises, it's all good, I guess. But a little variety really doesn't go astray. Who knows, one night you might even try making her beg for it by teasing her gently until she breaks. She might even enjoy tossing you around once in a while... have you thought about that?
LOL!!! I am a Gemini.... we like variety.
Me too! What date is your birthday?The 4th.... and you?I agree. I like to feel like I have as much input as my partner. It's comforting to know that you can be loved and trusted for who you are inside. Some people like that. I'm one...
Each to their own, I guess. I couldn't enjoy being controlled in the bedroom, but that's just me. I have certain issues... I don't enjoy 'having sex', I like to make love. Sometimes I am submissive, and other times he's happy to lie back and let me be the dominant one. Our love life is both exciting and spicy... and if he wants something special, all he has to do is ask. No matter what it is, he's earned it by giving me the love that I need and letting me keep my self respect.
If you and your wife both enjoy rough sex, who has the right to tell you it's wrong? As long as you don't toss her around so much that it leaves bruises, it's all good, I guess. But a little variety really doesn't go astray. Who knows, one night you might even try making her beg for it by teasing her gently until she breaks. She might even enjoy tossing you around once in a while... have you thought about that?
And I totally agree that everyone has to do what makes them happy.... as long as their partner is with them... go for it.
Nope, a Pisces ... very sensitive also.30th. I knew there was a reason I liked you.
Korvette's not a Scorpio, is he? They're very sensitive, romantic, caring, and make great friends and even better lovers... and they go very nicely with a fine Gemini too...
Biggravy22
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lol@ my wife tossing me around. I'm 6'1" 250 she's 5'8" 140. It would be more of her making tossing actions, and me throwing myself around. In everyday situations she's assertive, and independent, but in the bedroom she the total opposite. I'm the same. Social, yet introverted , but in the bedroom I'm tottally different. I have not left any bruises on her, but I have injured a couple people in the past.
ph03nix
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LOL. Well... that could be fun. It made me laugh just picturing it... a bit of humour might help you both relax into the opposite role.
You guys obviously have huge differences between your daytime lives and your nighttime ones. In our relationship, we don't. We're both very similar all the time. We take turns in making decisions, we share our responsibilities... I guess we don't have that complete opposite to revert to. We both like it that way, though.
I wonder if Vette would let me throw him around?!?!?! I am 4'10 1/2" he is almost 6'. I think it would be silly!! I can laugh just thinking about it.
Biggravy22
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Oh yeah...we're opposites, but I like it like that. She's my best friend, and I attribute that to our differences. I've dated women like me, and it simply hasn't worked...there's always this grasping for control. With my wife she takes the lead when she wants, and I follow. The same can be said for her as well. We compliment each other very well. Let's not be hasty...While I may have more or most of the control in the bedroom...she calls most of the shots outside. She's a Pisces and I'm an aries. Two totally opposite signs, and I love it. Similar partners work well with a lot of people...I'm glad you could find comfort in that. Some people just don't know how to make it work. Me one of them.
ph03nix
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Me not... I tried to live with my opposite for a long time. In the end it didn't work. Similar is good for me.
But you hit the nail right on the head, Big (or do you prefer Gravy?)... you said the magic words. "She's my best friend." That's the most important thing of all, I think. Without that no relationship can work.
BackDoorMan
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I'm a guy and the sexiest thing to me, is when my girl's in her undies and a t-shirt... or a small pair of boxer shorts.. awww man.. or when she's about to get in teh shower, and she steps out of sight, and takes her towel off and drops it in my line of sight.. aww man...
ph03nix
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You know, I think that's why most women I know would rather look at soft porn of a guy in nothing but a pair of jeans than a hard core full frontal. Getting what you need right now is ok sometimes, but there are times when anticipation is much more erotic. Usually your imagination works in much better ways than your eyes.
BackDoorMan
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You know, I think that's why most women I know would rather look at soft porn of a guy in nothing but a pair of jeans than a hard core full frontal. Getting what you need right now is ok sometimes, but there are times when anticipation is much more erotic. Usually your imagination works in much better ways than your eyes.
thats no lie.. i'd rather you tease me for awhile than just throw it on me... make me work for it.. nothing in life worth having ever came without working for it...
anothe rthing she does is when she's gettin dressed, if i'm playing my game, she'll stand behind me, cause she knows I cant keep my eye's off her, so I have to pause shit and turn around and wtach her get dressed.. then she'll come by and rub her ass on me.. ooh it drives me nuts... I like watching her get dressed just asmuch as I like wtaching her get undressed
Biggravy22
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Me not... I tried to live with my opposite for a long time. In the end it didn't work. Similar is good for me.
But you hit the nail right on the head, Big (or do you prefer Gravy?)... you said the magic words. "She's my best friend." That's the most important thing of all, I think. Without that no relationship can work.
I prefer Gravy...but you can use whatever you wish. I must say she's the first woman I've looked at as a best friend, and confidant. I always used to keep myself out of that zone. Like if we were together...we couldn't be friends. Friendliness, and respect was just apart of the package. With her friendship, companionship is the greatest aspect of our relationship, and I wouldn't want it any other way.
Biggravy22
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I agree 100%. Seeing a woman in form fitting , but flattering outfit is amazing.You know, I think that's why most women I know would rather look at soft porn of a guy in nothing but a pair of jeans than a hard core full frontal. Getting what you need right now is ok sometimes, but there are times when anticipation is much more erotic. Usually your imagination works in much better ways than your eyes.
One that show's off the contours, and curves. Nothing tight, but something that makes you wonder what's underneath. Makes me jealous when my wife comes home from work, and her outfit is giving her a little hug. Shit makes me wanna go in there and get my hug too.
ph03nix
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I think she's a keeper then.
Congratulations.I know so many people who see marriage/relationships as a battle. But a good relationship should be a partnership. If you're going to share your life, you both have to like each other. It's common sense really.
BackDoorMan
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you're lucky dude, I wish my girl could come home to me..I agree 100%. Seeing a woman in form fitting , but flattering outfit is amazing.
One that show's off the contours, and curves. Nothing tight, but something that makes you wonder what's underneath. Makes me jealous when my wife comes home from work, and her outfit is giving her a little hug. Shit makes me wanna go in there and get my hug too.
ph03nix
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Awww, that's sweet. Now see, that's the kind of stuff you should be telling her.... what are you still doing here??I agree 100%. Seeing a woman in form fitting , but flattering outfit is amazing.
One that show's off the contours, and curves. Nothing tight, but something that makes you wonder what's underneath. Makes me jealous when my wife comes home from work, and her outfit is giving her a little hug. Shit makes me wanna go in there and get my hug too.
Biggravy22
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I'm at work...she's at work, and trust me I tell her daily how much I think of her. No woman should go a day without hearing how beautiful she is. One thing in particular she does, and she knows I get butterflies everytime Is when she wakes up before me, and just looks at me so when I wake up all I see is these big beautiful blue eyes. Shit makes my heart melt everytime. DAMMIT WOMAN!