For corssing you can't have 2 plants in 1 pot for making seeds because the male matures about 2 weeks sooner then the female so the pollen would be wasted
this is incorrect... the pollen will fertilize the bracht pretty much as soon as there are pistols, which will appear before males release pollen... The difference is the males make pollen then die, the females take that pollen and would develop seeds in the few weeks after males release pollen. We elongate the females flowering time by not fertilizing them with pollen.