You sir are incorrect. Taken from wikipedia:
"A
bigot is a person who is obstinately and irrationally, often intolerantly, devoted to his or her own religion, political party, organization, belief, or opinion, especially one who regards or treats those of differing devotion with hatred and intolerance.
[1] Bigotry is the corresponding mindset or action.
The term
bigot is often misused to pejoratively label those who merely oppose or disagree with the devotion of another. The correct use of the term, however, requires the elements of obstinacy, irrationality, and animus toward those of differing devotion."
The key word is irrationality. Here we are doing nothing of the such and are discussing it in a civil and very rational manner.
You have just attached a personal meaning to the word bigotry, that of hate or as you said racism.
Since you made such statement would i be correct in guessing that you yourself are religious in one form of another. And are seeing this thread as a personal attack on your yourself and have come running to your religions defence?