So a bit of an update: Everything seemed to be going well, I had to murder the little fella as he turned out to be male, the other 2 have been coming on leaps and bounds until noticed that the smaller of the 2 had a huge infestation, in the end I had to dose both of them with insecticide a few days ago (not the first time) the smaller one (which had the infestation of spider mites i think) is fine but the bigger one (about 5 feet tall) is unnervingly turning yellow at a fast pace, I had noticed this before I dosed them, I have been watering her a lot more than the smaller one as and when she needed it including during the day (very hot sun here in Spain the last few weeks) they have both been fed 3-4 times in their lives with VERSOL 20% solution N-P-K -8-4-10 (i hope that means more to you ) some pics