RIU Counseling in life

Dame I'm a little stress and everyone is just plain o'l stupid to talk too i'm the only one with common sense except for you guys, you guys keep it real with out being a fuckin dick head sometimes. But hey lets make this thread about Counseling we say our problem and anyone with good advice help to make each other and this world better Lets seek the good out of each other instead of talikng shit, (cuz I know I I'am the top 10 in talkin shit) I really want to get a Counsler
but I will go to jail for the shit I say to them, and i aint trying to pay for the shit. Any way.
I hope the best for everyone and lets get $$$$$$
and live morale.

don2009 said:

Dame I'm a little stress and everyone is just plain o'l stupid to talk too i'm the only one with common sense except for you guys, you guys keep it real with out being a fuckin dick head sometimes. But hey lets make this thread about Counseling we say our problem and anyone with good advice help to make each other and this world better Lets seek the good out of each other instead of talikng shit, (cuz I know I I'am the top 10 in talkin shit) I really want to get a Counsler
but I will go to jail for the shit I say to them, and i aint trying to pay for the shit. Any way.
I hope the best for everyone and lets get $$$$$$
and live morale.

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as far as im aware, while talking to a counselor unless your threatening harm to yourself, or others, they are legally obligated to keep their mouthes shut

doctor-patient confidentiality

im pretty sure...

smoke some potent indica bud. may i suggest bubbakush. thats all t he counseling you will need

Smoke a fatty and relax brotha because whats going to happen is going to happen...if its not withing your power to control it fuck it....If it is then you know what you gotta do right ?....Handle you biz brotha...

Had a job and made 75k last year in 08 working in the trades...This past year made 11K....still unemployed...Truck payment alone is 600...went from bread to croutons from beds to futons....Fuck it.....Life is short and opportunites are few...Live, Laugh, Love brotha..... When all is said and done and your just a pile of compost what will have mattered ? Its a matter of perspective, work with what you have now until you can get to a better place but always keep that better place in sight, life works in mysterious ways and if you can conceive it and you put a game plan to your bluprint then your mind will subconsciously work to help you achieve or get what you want...Dont look at the cup being half empty, look at it being half full......and hit it ballz to the wallz it...

use your favorite "hobby" to "quietly" make some money

Well my problem is a lot of shit. But heres one. I just worked my ass of today and ( I own a cleaning business) My girl is pregnant and we work together but she is getting bigger and sloppier in work so we have to hire someone soon to take her place and were starting to get more clients but its overwhelm for her she strong she wont say when she hurt I know know she does. So we clean this clients home and they complain big time "we never get complains" They said the job SUCKS! And we know we did a good job it seems like they had a bad day and took it out on us idk I just dont know what to do bout my girl pregnant and takin on these new cutomers and then our money dont add up to our bills and hireing someone at the same time I know I have to sacrifice somethings but I just dont know what to do I'm nervous to do any new clients now IDK help you guys your my only friends

damn man this is a deep thread.

What my advice is coming from going through a lot.

Do not expend your energy on something out of your control/hands.
People tend to do that, and carry the anxiety of of it. Take it easy, consistently.

I do not think you necessarily need a counselor at the moment, though they are nice at time, the good ones are hard to come by. I recommend embracing the positive things in your life.

Think positive, and do not focus on the problem, focus on the solution.

allright brotha first and foremost your lady is prego (good shit) Congrats...Moving on your cliente is the bloodline of your business you cant fuck around with your customers (not that your trying to)...but you cant...Your livelihood depends on the financial bloodline that they give you for your work...You may have to hire someone else...its your onli option if your continuing to take on clientele....

there people out there with noooo work bro like me....Hire someone, pay them a decent wage since you probably dont offer insurance right ?...and keep trucking...put an ad in CL.....It may take you a few days even a few weeks but your going to have to sacrifice taking on any more clients until you can handle them

chitownsmoking said:

use your favorite "hobby" to "quietly" make some money

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Yeah bro that exactly what im trying to do but shit just get in the way for me to start. Then me being a business man I 'm so skeptical in this cuz i'm like whats next to happen and my girl like you and your projects. I'm so on that but with all the hardship coming to me I get nervous to start I say to my self can I do it? Do I got a green thumb? etc etc I know I do tho but I'm so ambitious and confident ppl just shut me down its fuckin hard man I got all the connects to be good with the green get rid of it, its just whats next a fuckin brown thumb feel me? With you guys I WILL RISE TO THE TOP! I just have this feeling in me saying I supposed to be rich and I cant stop till I succed I dont talk to anyone cuz they aint bout $$$$$ Hey I read all you guys comments also and I already feel better some are in worse then me I have a house a pool great girl kid and dog and I'm complaining but its just something in me saying this aint shit you better. My family always say you living real good be happy and I'm just not, especialy when it comes from someone living in the slums idk. Hey i was just listening to this song on serious radio by Maxwell called Bad habits it makes me think of my situations Thanks you guys always keep it real and know yourself

Keenly said:

as far as im aware, while talking to a counselor unless your threatening harm to yourself, or others, they are legally obligated to keep their mouthes shut

doctor-patient confidentiality

im pretty sure...

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nah nah man i aint doing that. you know dame well you cant say illegal shit to a counsler im well aware they cant say shit to anyone its just there not there with you like you guys are feel me its like talikn to a fuckin rat they cant hold what I got to say to them they got to air that shit out too

mofizzle415 said:

Had a job and made 75k last year in 08 working in the trades...This past year made 11K....still unemployed...Truck payment alone is 600...went from bread to croutons from beds to futons....Fuck it.....Life is short and opportunites are few...Live, Laugh, Love brotha..... When all is said and done and your just a pile of compost what will have mattered ? Its a matter of perspective, work with what you have now until you can get to a better place but always keep that better place in sight, life works in mysterious ways and if you can conceive it and you put a game plan to your bluprint then your mind will subconsciously work to help you achieve or get what you want...Dont look at the cup being half empty, look at it being half full......and hit it ballz to the wallz it...

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Thanks man thats the shit we all need to hear When all is said and done and your just a pile of compost what will have mattered ? Its a matter of perspective, work with what you have now until you can get to a better place but always keep that better place in sight, life works in mysterious ways and if you can conceive it and you put a game plan to your bluprint then your mind will subconsciously work to help you achieve or get what you want...Dont look at the cup being half empty, look at it being half full......and hit it ballz to the wallz it. Good shit bro I'm on it +rep

smokebros said:

damn man this is a deep thread.

What my advice is coming from going through a lot.

Do not expend your energy on something out of your control/hands.
People tend to do that, and carry the anxiety of of it. Take it easy, consistently.

I do not think you necessarily need a counselor at the moment, though they are nice at time, the good ones are hard to come by. I recommend embracing the positive things in your life.

Think positive, and do not focus on the problem, focus on the solution.

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I love you guys y'all have all the right things to say imagine if we all live near each other we take over the world

mofizzle415 said:

there people out there with noooo work bro like me....Hire someone, pay them a decent wage since you probably dont offer insurance right ?...and keep trucking...put an ad in CL.....It may take you a few days even a few weeks but your going to have to sacrifice taking on any more clients until you can handle them

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Thanks man thats what I needed and CL is my only solution and its doing well its just bills but like you and I said SACRAFICE.

right on don2009...good stuff brotha stay postive, things will change

mofizzle415 said:

right on don2009...good stuff brotha stay postive, things will change

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Thanks man I won't FALL

Hotwired said:

kill

kill

kill

kill all the mother fuckers

BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

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Damn you might be the next one starting a "how to grow weed in prison" thread