It will help, and even if it was for a short period of time I doubt he will backtrack.
I mean seriously, you've started with one guy, moved on, moved on, moved on, MAYBE occasionally backslid but for the most part you moved on.
I bet the MAJORITY of people you know are not still with their "first"..
They had to let their ass go to move on.
people arent use to moving on when they get older.
Its easier to let go when marriage is not an issue for a variety of reasons, but one of the main ones would be because he is use to her. Plain and simple. Hanging around guys? sad music thats gonna get ur mind on her? (and who said you HAVE to think about them and its GOING to bite u in the ass?), the only thing that will free your mind of a mate is another mate. thats it.
you have <150yrs on this planet. Your not going to meet every woman BUT I GARUNTEE there is someone OUT there you havent met yet.
