say it ain't so PLEASSSSSE!!!

NevaSmokedOut

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i'll start from the beginning, i have been dating this fly as girl since after christmas of last year. we've already met each others folks, went out to lots of places in town even without any cash and have been doing the nasty for quite some time. i just started my electrician class this year and things seem to be great. enter the bad news; on a paticular night of great sex my rubber busted mid ejaculation and i thought i had pulled out in time (everyone should ALREADY KNOW where this is going). as of two weeks ago, i got stomach pain that had me running to the bathroom at light speed doing a #3 and migraines out of this world. i took it as being sick. in that same week my gf drops the bomb in my lap, those famous every man in their prime aren't (most of the time) are never prepared for: "i'm pregnant." this shit can not be happening to me i feel so cheated so idiotic in plain old american english i'm fucked. i don't have any good options if i run from this i'll be just like my sperm donor/father, a shithead for life and i really like kids. if i stay there's a possibility of me becoming america's next famous psycho killer from trying to live life like homer simpson. plus i'm not financially nor psychologically ready to raise a kid, i can barely afford my ps3 as it is. life is truly a bitch without a pimp (grandpas old saying).
 

robert 14617

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life is a struggle once we leave our parents house and make our own life and build a family , never ending bumps and lumps , its a tough road enjoy every part or you will miss out on life live it son
 

greenlikemoney

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Yup, time to pay for the play. Play your cards right and that fly ass chick will take good care of you. Play them wrong and you just bought yourself a couple decades of big time child support payments. Choose wisely.
 

SnapsProvolone

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Yup, time to pay for the play. Play your cards right and that fly ass chick will take good care of you. Play them wrong and you just bought yourself a couple decades of big time child support payments. Choose wisely.
True that. Wisdom being imparted on a Yoda like level here ^^^
 

joe macclennan

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you did some fucking...but you're not fucked. You're gonna be a dad. Time to grow up.

there are worse things in life.

it is what you make of it young man.
 

SnapsProvolone

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Kids are awesome! My daughter is why I live. I would walk through fire with a can of gasoline to save my family. Only becoming a father will show you the TRUE meaning in life.
 
yeah either talk to her about getting it taken care of, or take a breathe and start culling yourself into the father you would want.
 

cc2012

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You need to talk to GF and see what she is saying/feeling about it? responsibility is one thing, but having a Kid together and staying together is another..she probably feels as confused, Trapped...whatever as you do.

Hope it works out...

Relationships can sometimes be a lot of hard work, and sometimes a Breeze....but be aware a Relationships that turn Sour affects the Kids too...

Peace

I Just turned a Dad again @ 40!! Wouldn't swap it for the World and all Riches in the World...and My first 1st just turned 21 and had little lad "Henley" So I'm a Pops(Twice now) and a Grandad! Life sure moves Fast!

:twisted:
 

NevaSmokedOut

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Kids are awesome! My daughter is why I live. I would walk through fire with a can of gasoline to save my family. Only becoming a father will show you the TRUE meaning in life.
don't get me wrong i always wanted to become a father (if anything i hope it's gonna be a boy). but i wasn't expecting this to be so damn sudden, y'know.
 
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