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andrew23 said:
My mother only had three children, three boys..me and my two brothers...my youngest brother who is 17 just told me and only me that he just found out he knocked up his girlfriend. as the oldest brother, 23, and none of us sons have any kids.....how should i react to this, i want to get on his ass, but i also dont want to make the situation worse. should i just congratulate him and help him to get motivated, or just knock his lights out? it really does tweek me out.
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My personal opinion? 17 is close enough to being a grown ass man. Congratulate him. A bit late to be a parent, he's gotta grow up now. I wouldn't rag on him, support him. He's going to need it, and whats done is done. Kids coming, best deal with it and move on.
 
The Cryptkeeper said:
Who am I? A person that can comprehend the situation at hand. :)

You already stated that since they don't want the child they should put it up for adoption.

*Child parents* Check.
*Unintentional conception* Check.
*Averse disposition* Check.
*Adoption on the table* Check.
*Abortion on the table* Check.

Who are you to say the child's existence wont be a sad one.
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I had parents and my childhood was all kinds of fucked up. Then I grew up, never been happier. Living in foster care may very well be a straight fucking nightmare, but if they make it through it they'll grow up and have a say in their life. Hell, they might even be able to make the rest of their life make up for the shit beginning. Aborted, they'll never get a say.
 
andrew23 said:
My mother only had three children, three boys..me and my two brothers...my youngest brother who is 17 just told me and only me that he just found out he knocked up his girlfriend. as the oldest brother, 23, and none of us sons have any kids.....how should i react to this, i want to get on his ass, but i also dont want to make the situation worse. should i just congratulate him and help him to get motivated, or just knock his lights out? it really does tweek me out.
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Looking at this the wrong way you need to go to the girl and.....
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Oh serious advice? well if shes having the baby then yah he needs a job and more importantly needs to know that he has an obligation to step up and make the situation right and support his child.

Wear a rubber kids.
 
Show him and his girlfriend love. Any asshole can play the blame game, as if they have never made a mistake, but it takes real character to show love - and especially not to throw it up in their faces. People know when they've made a mistake - not saying this is one - but they don't need to have a finger from the people they love and trust for support being judgmental to them.
 
True but you got to live. A fetus feels pain just like the rest of us. It's not for us to decide to take a life. To take it away is murder.
 
RavenMochi said:
I had parents and my childhood was all kinds of fucked up. Then I grew up, never been happier. Living in foster care may very well be a straight fucking nightmare, but if they make it through it they'll grow up and have a say in their life. Hell, they might even be able to make the rest of their life make up for the shit beginning. Aborted, they'll never get a say.
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LOL They never get a say in if they want to be born, so as much as I'd like to agree with that, I can't. As to everything else, I already said earlier that there isn't a great choice in it. Death is fucked. Foster is hell. Living with parents that didn't want you, is the most fucked part....
 
LMFAO XD biggest fuck up bro, your older brother is done especially if its his. The only adult thing to do is to take responsibility of his own actions. Sit him down give him a nice kiss on the cheek and tell his congratz bro you just fucked up your life, ever heard of jimmy's? or my favorite"breakfast in bed" *plan B*. Lol but no tell him he needs to get a job and support that girl cause its his own fault. and hopefully YOU will learn from this when u get older and not fuck ur own life up
 
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