My friend hooked up with some girl from school a couple times. I wish I had a picture but they hooked 2 or 3 times and I guess he just pushed her away. He wasn't that into her and he kind of prefers to be alone he even pushes me away at times. When he hooked up with her he said he kind of felt worse. On one had he was glad he hooked up with someone but on the other hand he was kind of getting drained. He says she would feel sad when he would call it a night which he didn't like. He also said it was kind of difficult having sex with her but maybe it's be he hadn't hooked up in a while.
He saw her again today and she texted him that she wanted to hook up but he doesn't know if it will be good or not and I'm not sure what to tell him either.
Do you think it's better to just be abstinent and not have to worry about relationship things or that people should hook up when they have the chance? I told him to just pass off and wait for a girl he is really into but he says he is afraid that he can't talk to women he really likes anymore and that having her around will help "normalize" him. What do you think?
He saw her again today and she texted him that she wanted to hook up but he doesn't know if it will be good or not and I'm not sure what to tell him either.
Do you think it's better to just be abstinent and not have to worry about relationship things or that people should hook up when they have the chance? I told him to just pass off and wait for a girl he is really into but he says he is afraid that he can't talk to women he really likes anymore and that having her around will help "normalize" him. What do you think?
