tyler.durden
Well-Known Member
my nonna has really bad alzhimers, hit her like a tonof bricks. its very sad.
its worse than her just dying.
i wish she would die already i know that sounds horrible.
but she shits in a reclining wheel chair all day cant open her eyes mumbles incohearant words, the nurses cant take too much time to feed her she probably weights 80 lbs.
her neck is all cramped up
she doesnt respond to anything,
alzhimers runs very hard in my family infact is the only sickness we have no one dies in our family, no cancer, no heart disease, no blood problems.
my great zio died , this month adn thats the first death in our family since 2011, when my great nonna died at 102, she was awesome though and
she was the most active 102 year old ive ever met, she used to say in italian
"i wish god would just take me, things have changed so much andi cant keep up with the times, i am too tired and too old , and i would like to just go now please"
the last death over that was my great nonno when i was like 5 so like 1995 but no one loved him he was an asshole my nonna used to get beaten with frozen meat , and he chased people with meat cleavers he was a bad man
its a sickening way to go
Hey Sunni. Yeah, wishing a loved one would die sounds monstrous if taken out of context, but if you've dealt with diseases like this you understand. My last boss' father had Alzheimer's before my mom came down with it, and he is the first one I heard that from. He wished his father would die, not just for his own sake, but for everyone else burdened with his care. My ex-wife's dad died suddenly from a heart attack two years ago, and after hearing what we're going through with my mom, she said that she was very thankful he went quickly while he was still the man everyone knew. The really shitty thing is that we tend to remember people the way they were right before they died, instead of the vibrant, active, and lucid people they were all of their lives. I don't think I'll mostly remember my mom this way, but it sure is strange to miss someone who isn't even dead yet. This experience has taught me that there are things far worse than death, that's an awful realization to have...