So my girlfriend is a whore???

bongedman929 said:

so i moved down to my new town last june and i met this girl... shes awesome she the best i like her alot we've been dating for about 4 months but today i found out something interesting...apparently she cheated on her last boyfriend and had a nasty break up with him and then went and "hooked" up with alot of guys after that rebounding. i asked her before we dated how many guys shes been with and she said two...her ex and the guy she cheated with.... but today i hear that she actually ended fucking alot of guys and crap so idk what to do... it was a rela buzz kill to find this out this mornign right after i baked... any ideas?

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The Son of Man said:

the taliban knows how women should be treated

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The Son of Man said:

the taliban knows how women should be treated

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Stoney McFried said:

The past is the past.Just watch for cheating, because usually a cheater is a cheater for good.But there may be extenuating circumstances, I don't know.
That being said, I have slept with 11 guys.Maybe 12, I think I forgot one in there because I'm blocking the shoddy performance.I've never cheated on anyone.I don't mess around with other women's men. I don't care if anyone thinks I'm a slut or not.If you do, you're an asshat.WOmen have the same right to sexual experiences as you do,and no, pussy doesn't get "stretched out" by multiple encounters.If you think that, you're a fool who probably couldn't find his way around a woman with a map and a penlight.
Bottom line:The past is over.And none of your business.Appreciate what you have with her now,and make it as good as you can.Women like to fuck too.

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wackymack said:

what type of sandwich?is that your daughter at the end of the table?

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dirt clean said:

dump her by ignoring her. she'll come running back to you begging.

do this a few times. it will break her of any cheatin thoughts. i am a psychiatrist.


if you wanna keep her.

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Stoney McFried said:

No you're not.Psychiatrists capitalize at the beginning of each sentence. And they don't recommend head games.

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DWR said:

I told my Girlfriend today to shut up for once in her life and fucking listen :

1. When I die do u realy think i am gona fucking think of you... ? Do u think i am gona think of someone thats allways rude and shit....

2. Life is so great that i dont want to bloody fuck up my life lisning to you and doing what you want the whole time...

3. You can do what you want aslong as I can do what i want to and theres no discussion about it in the evenings, all i want to do is smoke my weed, make love... earn da cash.... eat.. drink..... have fun...

4. Lifes to short to think about shit like this man, realy.. i've just come to this conclusion ! And i am loving my life atm. I dont care about anythings, feelings get hurt, but when u die are they still hurting ? WHAT IS LIFe.. ?

Enjoy it, forget about bad things,, just live.. theres allways great stuff in life... doesnt matter what, i couldnt care if she had sex with another guy... tbh. if she told me thats fine.. i would go and have sex with women aswell...

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What i am saying is i just dont give a fuck anymore about anything.... ! I am doing my thing ! and only my thing, i will help those who need it and those who dont can join my party

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worm5376 said:

Most people wouldn't agree.... I'm not most people. +REP

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RetiredToker76 said:

(Rant on) Ok I'm going to try and remain as passive as possible but this subject is one I hear too often and many women lose men to this subject unfairly..

Slut vs. Stud

If a guy beds roughly 5 - 15 women while in high school and college he's a stud. He's revered by friends and family. He generally is applauded by most of society for his sexual prowess.

If a woman beds ANYONE but you, she's a slut. Shunned by society, treated like she's worse than the gum on the bottom of a shoe and not worth anyone's time.

Do we see a little bit of inequity here?

My wife, my lovely princess of a wife, has fucked, screwed, slept with, had intercourse with well over 20 men. I myself have had intercourse with roughly 30 - 35 women. When we got together she'd been with 9 guys and I'd been with 6 women. You do the math on this and realize we are quite sexual anything else you infer is what ever you dream up.

I consider my bride to be as pristine as the day I met her 13 years ago. Why? She has no kids (nor do I) and neither of us has any STD's. So physically there's not a single problem with either of us.

The ONLY problem with your girlfriend is that she lied to you. Not that she had copious amounts of rebound sex. She lied to you because that's what society has trained her to do. She believes deep down that you would find her 'unacceptable' for being a sexual person and therefore not interested in her. She has been trained by centuries of sexism that it's 'bad' for a woman to be sexual, therefor to retain her womanhood she must lie to protect her pool of available mates, to out herself as experienced sexually drastically reduces the pool from stupid men who don't get it.

So... What should you do. Ask her why she lied. (She'll likely stammer and eventually say what I just said.) Then tell her that you don't care how many men she's been with but what you care about is her future honesty with you. Do not be angry or aggressive, just honest.

Then once you're all happy enjoy the fact that you have a woman who actually knows how to fuck instead of one who has no experience and lies there like a wet noodle waiting for you to finish.

I don't know about anyone else but by the time I got to college I'd lost interest in training women on how to be fun in bed and wanted a nice classic girl who'd been around the block and knew how to make me feel good while feeling good herself. (Rant off)

Peace.

-RT76

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